FancyACuppa77

The sun will come out tomorrow.... and wouldn't you know, it always does. No matter what happens today. So, I figure, why not make the most of these glorious moments even though in the moment so many of them feel not so glorious. Often times we feel like life is squeezing the utter sense of joy from our very being. Instead wouldn't it be more palpable for life to squeeze us into a giant suffocating bear hug full or oxytocin and serotonin and dopamine and let us coast through the difficult moments until we are solid again, whether that need be emotional mental physical or otherwise? Well.... That is why I am here. I'm listening. I'm feeling. I'm engaging and soothing. Life tries to make us hard and this is one thing I endeavor not to be. So I envision my life with all the softest things and moments to have and be shared, because life is hard. And when there's a moment you just need a hug and life is being a punk and won't give you one, I step in and do my best. I am gentle, warm, soft, seemingly funny (movie theater laugh and weird cackling lady story for references). I am a thinker and observer, quiet, cautious, imaginative, dreamy, practical, and generally thoughtful. I try not to be subservient, but I like to think where I see a need, if I can, I want to fulfill a need. I describe myself as an introverted extrovert, no-nonsense, sensible but very silly, and I can self-saboteur with the best. For reference, ISTJ.

I love to cuddle. I prefer my electric blanket October through April but usually only when I'm alone. With that being said, I am not the one to gauge the temperature settings. Very flexible haha. I keep water by the bed, switch my diffuser to rotating lights, but it's optional and I don't rest with the TV on but don't mind it. I love pillows. Due to migraine, I have room darkening curtains and they shield me from the cold world. Visitors often say my space is "homey" and makes you want to stay there. I for one enjoy being at home and am usually just comfortable being, in the silence of my own space. Cuddling is a favorite pastime, and in 2020, I incepted Cuddlebug Island, a place for maximum enjoyment of cuddling. I will do what it takes to ensure this platonic experience is enjoyable and comfortable for you in my home. Hope you will visit soon. If you have any questions about a potential experience in the interim, please message me. I'll be glad to answer.