GerenukGuy

I think my friends would describe me as thoughtful, curious, creative, dependable, and a little goofy once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m fairly laid-back and enjoy good conversation, but I’m also perfectly happy just quietly spending time with someone. I work as a web developer, and outside of work I’m into piano, board games, hiking and walking, creative projects, and learning random new things. Currently trying to figure out how to shuffle/cut shapes!

I like cuddling because physical affection and closeness can be very comforting, and it's not something I get to experience at all in my everyday life. There’s something nice about being able to relax around another person without feeling like you constantly need to talk or entertain each other. I especially appreciate that kind of comfortable, peaceful companionship.

As for how I cuddle, I’m pretty flexible and would rather figure out what feels comfortable and natural for both people than have a particular routine. I am naturally more of a giver than a receiver, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy it! Super clear boundaries and making sure both people are comfortable are important to me. I've also been told I'm very good at giving massages, so if that's something you're down for, I'd love to improve my technique!