InsaneZane

(It's just a username that's fun to say, I am quite sane, though a bit nervous...)

Touch deprived, looking to change that. It's not new to quarantine, I've had a lot of social anxiety and depression most of my life so I've not even been mentally capable of getting to a place where it seemed possible. Many years later I'm finally at that place, now it's just finding a person! Or people.

I'm open to cuddling women, non-binary, genderfluid, et Al; one day I would love to cuddle men, but I've got some emotional intimacy & toxic masculinity stuff from my upbringing that I'm still working through. Please understand that this limitation is not something I'm happy with and something I want to change. And still down to make friends with men though if we have that platonic chemistry.

With the aforementioned anxiety, I need to feel safe emotionally with someone for my body to give me the oxytocin during cuddles. So probably spending a small amount of time talking beforehand the first time we meet.

Maybe this is all tmi but I hate the mental health stigma. I won't make any of it your problem but I am a firm believer in communication to reduce shame. If you see that as a red flag or a dealbreaker, then we're just definitely not a good fit.

It doesn't have to be all serious though. I love watching movies/TV on streaming services, listening to music, playing some video games, and just talking or listening. Only and ever if we're both comfortable with it and want to.

(Hairstyles vary in the pics but presently I'm continuing to grow it out.)