JL_Borges

50 - Man - Bel Air + Baltimore (US)
"I like to cuddle while listening to music and or conversing."

About me

My best friends would describe, and have described, me as a little off-beat or quirky, funny, curious, intelligent, kind, easy to be around, creative, and insightful. Or these might all be just things I’d say about myself, and wished my friends would say them.

I have eclectic tastes and interests, and most of them are constructive. I earned a Ph.D. in Romance languages and literature and became a professor. Years later, I left the profession to travel and work abroad. After teaching high school for a few years, I switched careers again to developing software using Natural Language Processing (think Siri without the voice) for a giant health care corporation. Disliked it. Now I’m back to teaching Hispanic language and literature.

I’m an avid reader, love creativity that defies my expectations or challenges my norms, but don’t typically get along with people who take themselves too seriously. Life’s too short for that. You can still get your shit done and be silly.

I’d like to find a cuddle friend. Platonic physical and emotional intimacy. People often tell me that I make them feel comfortable. What a way to improve quality of life! I would enjoy reading a message from you. Don’t be shy about it.

- What’s your current favorite music? Include a link and I’ll give it a listen.
- Like to read? Give me a recommendation and a short explanation about why you like it.
- What are some favorite places you’ve traveled?
- Have an adventure story you don’t get to tell as much as you’d like? Tell me!
- I’d love to see a photo of your pet(s) or holidays or family time or hobbies.
- Do you have an unusual hobby? What is it?
- What languages do you speak? Why?

Facts

Join Date August 2021
Orientation Straight
Status Single
Cuddles Women
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Evening, Night
Preferred Age 25 - 52
Fav. TV Show Arrested Development + more
Location: Bel Air, MD
Location #2: Baltimore, MD
Height 5' 10"
Body Type Average
Car Owner Yes
Pets Dog, cats, ferrets, birds, python
Drinks Socially
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Agnosticism
Job World Languages teacher
Children Has children

deleted cuddler


11 months ago

Time truly flew by with JL_Borges. His calming presence and relaxing energy made the experience so easy and enjoyable! I felt instantly at ease. It honestly felt like spending time with an old friend. I left feeling lighter, refreshed, and grateful. I really hope our paths cross again someday!

N•••••_


2 years ago

Could not recommend Jl_Borges anymore! The kind of conversation which just flows naturally in tune with his warm and safe touch. The kind of deep relaxation which demands you hit the snooze when the timer calls out the end of session. Exactly the kind of cuddler you are looking for!

R•••••n


2 years ago

Basics: I felt so safe and comfy with JL, from beginning to end. He kept checking in with me, and is transparent, honest and kind.
Much more: What an amazing human! Lovely conversation, and even better cuddles, complete with massage. I am so touched, emotionally and physically.

CuddleNora


4 years ago

An absolute delight. Respectful, funny, and full of amazing stories. We shared a magical cuddle, and I hope to do it again soon.

Loading karma...
Full Communication

No barriers. Completely free.