About me
I believe that physical touch can be incredibly therapeutic for both mental and physical well-being. Yet, many of us don’t receive the physical connection we need to stay healthy and happy.
By nature, I’m an empath—it’s just who I’ve always been. I work in healthcare and have a deep passion for helping others feel safe, relaxed, unburdened, and truly human.
Out of curiosity, do you experience chronic conditions, too? I know from personal experience how much a long, meaningful embrace can help manage mine. I'm just imagining many of us here might be in the same boat.
For full disclosure: I live with multiple inflammatory conditions that cause chronic pain. These go hand-in-hand with my AuDHD (autism + ADHD), PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I know what you're thinking—Jackpot! 😆
I've always held strong beliefs in consent, equality, fairness, equity, social justice, autonomy, and freedom. I believe everyone deserves to feel safe, set boundaries, and be treated with respect, trust, honesty, and integrity.
There’s no funny business with me—no creepiness, awkwardness, or blurred boundaries. I quite good at compartmentalising the different types of interpersonal relationships in my life: Strangers, work colleagues, acquaintances, friends, good friends, besties, lovers, and partners.
I am in a romantic relationship with a cisgender woman, (fellow AuDHDer), with whom I'm romantically loyal. Though me being monogamous and loyal, our encounters are quite infrequent and we are totally fine with simply cuddling others. I also have a Bestie AuDHDer, and we talk nearly every day. Occasionally, if one of us is struggling, we’ll share a long hug or a rare cuddle for comfort—but with her moving overseas soon, that connection will be even rarer. 😭
Beyond that, I have a small circle of close friends, none of whom are particularly touchy-feely.
I live alone and, after decades of homeownership, now house-sit full-time as a way to simplify my life. This lifestyle has been incredibly beneficial, in ways I never expected.
For work, I’ve shifted to permanent part-time hours to better accommodate my health conditions. My job is demanding—both mentally and physically—but I’m making it work.
Through cuddling, I hope to fill the gap, offering a safe space where people can experience the comfort and connection we all deserve.
I have the time, freedom, and natural ability to provide therapeutic care. My approach is soft, nurturing, and grounded in empathy, mindfulness, thoughtfulness, trustworthiness, and reliability. I take pride in creating a safe, calming space for others—and, of course, I give great cuddles.
Police Check, Nursing Credentials, WWCC, and references available upon request.
Peace,
Matt