MikeySaintLouis

I think the last time I had a platonic cuddle buddy was when I was 11 years old, and she was my pet beagle, Cookie. Well, Cookie is long-gone, and while I don't have any pets right now, I would like to have a human cuddle buddy. Most of my cuddling has been done within a relationship, so this is a bit different for me. I'm not in a relationship right now. Touch-starved is a phrase I see a lot, and it definitely applies to me.

I love cuddling and just don’t have enough of it in my life. If you need someone to talk to, I'm a good listener. If you want someone to encourage you, I'm a positive and optimistic person. If you want to share a few laughs or be silly, I've got a great sense of humor. If you want to be held quietly and just relax in the arms of another, I would enjoy that too. I'm open to trying different positions and modes of cuddling - big spoon, little spoon, face-to-face, head-on-shoulder, or whatever -- always open to suggestions. We can incorporate other types of platonic touch, including soft, finger-tip strokes to deeper muscle-relaxing and therapeutic-like movements: whatever we both might enjoy. In any case, I will assure you that you'll always be treated with gentlemanly respect, and your boundaries will be honored.

I’m very health conscious and see cuddling as both physically and emotionally healthy. I eat healthy, don’t smoke, rarely drink, and always exercise. I don't have the perfect body, but I try and keep reasonably fit. I’d prefer a cuddle buddy who has a similarly healthy lifestyle, particularly a non-smoker (420 is okay, although I rarely indulge).

If you like what you’ve read so far, please write back and tell me a bit about yourself. I believe trust and open communication are important to any relationship, including a cuddle-buddy friendship. I want you to feel safe and to do whatever I can to make sure our cuddling time together is a positive, fulfilling experience for both of us. Feel free to tell me what’s important to you to feeling comfortable with a potential cuddle buddy. We can take things slowly -- you set the pace. Feel free to ask me anything you’re curious about.