About me
Hi friend and thank you for visiting! I hope you came here to learn a little about me. I'll share a little bit so we can get to know one another better. :)
I'm a relationship and life coach looking to make the world a little happier through compassion and joy. I'm also a co-host on a relationship podcast called "Talk Your Poly Off" where we discuss relationships in all fashion, not just navigating polyamory. I'm exploring the cuddle world to develop better personal skills and techniques which I can utilize to achieve my goals of making the world a more loving and welcoming place for everyone.
I like to be adventurous, imaginative, and creative. When I'm not cuddling, I enjoy going out (when that's a thing again), writing, role-playing, exploring new and interesting places, revisiting old favorites, and even cosplaying; though I don't get to do that one much.
During cuddle visits, I'm happy to engage in discussions big and small, watch your favorite movies, listen to you, play games you enjoy (but you might need to teach me), get out and do something you find fun, watch your favorite anime, or just stroke your hair or rub your shoulders if you've had a rough day.
I practice and promote consent, communication, understanding and respecting boundaries, body positivity, platonic touching, and genuine connection.
I am warm, affectionate, caring, gentle, and comforting. I'm a little softer, a little fuzzy, tattooed, and love to listen.
Thinking of cuddling in terms of the five love languages, we can learn why cuddling is important and how to get the most joy from each cuddle session. I see the value of comfort cuddling in these ways:
Touch- this is the direct sensation of cuddling and the positive touch of each encounter is fulfilling.
Quality time- this is the joy of knowing someone is setting aside time to focus on the cuddling.
Acts of service- when I'm cuddling with you, I am doing this act with you and for you. Some of my cuddle buddies also enjoy a back scratch, having hair played with, or a muscle rub while cuddling. All pre-negotiated and only with informed consent
Words of affirmation- while the focus is on the cuddle, extra enjoyment is obtained by positive speak throughout the cuddle.
Gifts- while this can range widely based on each person, small tokens of appreciation are a great addition to cuddling.
From a friend who currently cuddles, "He's really open and when he wraps his arms around me he is warm and snuggly. No matter what we are talking about, he is open and safe which helps me feel comforted. He is always respectful of my boundaries and I always leave wanting more."