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I'm a sweet, open minded computer geek looking for some cuddle buddies in or near Birmingham AL! (I may be willing to drive to meet someone occasionally as well.) I like hiking, camping, walking at night by moonlight, (especially on the beach), going to thrift stores, yard sales and flea markets to see what neat stuff I can find, doing physical things when I can, like laser tag, paintball, water skiing, bowling, bicycle riding, and some other things. I also enjoy designing and building things. I like wood and metal working, gardening and landscaping, and really just building in general. I do enjoy WRC racing and also Formula 1 racing; I'd love to get the chance to do one of those things, though I know that will probably never happen.
I'm not really a fan of team & ball sports, ie football, basketball, baseball, soccer, tennis, golf, etc.) I'm also not really big into loud party scenes, like clubs, bars, rowdy parties with lots of people, and concerts and such. (This isn't to say that I'd never do any of those things, just that I don't do them very often.) I'm an introvert, so I get uncomfortable when there's too many people around. I'm terrible at small talk, and I'm not the most socially apt person either. I typically either want to talk about geeky things, or things that interest me, like my interest, or about serious subjects like politics, religion, economics, sexuality, and other touchy things that tend to get people riled up.
I consider myself a moderate libertarian. I believe in gay rights, gun rights, right to choice, limited government, environmental protection, fiscal responsibility, and basically a mix of right and left views.
I'm bisexual, and polyamorous. That means that I'd like to be in a marriage with two or more people. Ideally, I'd like to be part of a poly-quad with another male, and two females. Basically two married couples get married themselves. Since all members are bisexual, everybody in intimate with everybody else. This would be a semi-closed relationship, meaning that if a member wants to bring an outsider into the family, they'd need the approval of all the members of the family. (A decision that wouldn't be made lightly.) I might want kids someday, and in a poly family, there'd be a larger support network for the kids. Each child would have two dads and two moms regardless of which member fathered or gave birth to the child. For me, one or two kids per two parents would be ideal. I know this type of family would be difficult to create and maintain on several levels, but it's what I have always wanted, even before I knew it was an actual thing and had a name. (Just so you know, it has nothing in common with polygamy. I'm not a womanizer or an abuser, and I don't want a dozen kids.)
I have a couple of eccentricities, but you will have to message me to find out what they are. I'm not one to cry at the drop of a hat, in fact, I can seem emotionless at times, but I am actually a fairly emotional person. I'm a sweet and sensitive guy that likes to make people happy. Like to do both traditionally male and female activities, like working on cars, sewing, target shooting, flower arranging, building things, and cooking, and such. I guess my gender identity is somewhat androgynous. I dress and act like a male, but I don't really stick to the established gender roles. (Of course there's nothing at all wrong with males not dressing or acting like males, I simply act the way I do because that's who I am.) I believe you should do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't hurt anyone and isn't illegal. (That last thing is flexible... after all there's a million laws, and not all of them should be on the books.)
Well, this profile description went longer than I intended, but I hope it wasn't too boring. If you made it this far, and you liked what you read, consider sending me a message so we can chat!
I hope to hear from you soon! :-)
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