Pasquia

I've been told I have feral cat energy; I'm skittish around new people but am very calm and comfortable once I get to know them. I've always had to deal with stress, had to make decisions, and be on high allert; I like to be able to shut that part of me off for a while.

I'm a retired-introvert-homebody who loves her house plants, working in her garden, and reading. I enjoy spending time with my friend group, and see family when I can. I watch animae, play video games(I'm really bad at them though), and have a horrible concept of time, and rarely know what day it is(I rely heavily on my calendar and alarms).

Cuddling requires a level of vulnerability, and vulnerability requires feeling a level of safety. For my comfort level, I would like to meet in person before cuddling. The first time we meet will be a non-cuddle meeting. I won't show up to cuddle with you from just from one message, so don't cold message me and ask "are you free to night?".

I feel as if the cuddling experience would be better for the both of us if we knew a little about each other. It would be nice to find common interests we connect with, before we connect. I ask that you have patience as we take time to get to know about each other.

I would prefer to keep communication in the app primarily. I know it isn’t the most effective way to communicate, but it is the safest. We can switch to off app communication when we get to the point where we are going to meet in person for ease of coordination.