About me
Hello dear humans on this beautiful planet together. How are you really? If you're here, maybe you want to explore how touch/cuddle therapy might bring you some peace, comfort, and spirit lifting. Or maybe you're a regular consumer of touch therapy and want to explore how I might personally help. Either way, welcome to my little space. I'm here for you!
I consider myself a touch healer, a deep listener, as well as an uplifter and joy-bringer. I believe that human connection and being understood and seen is essential to feeling fully realized within oneself. We were not designed to always be alone and unseen.
If you think you'd like to have a cuddle session together, please make sure we have *compatible expectations* :) I *very strictly* abide by the non-sexual guidelines. I am purely a professional cuddler focused on bringing healing touch and energy to my clients, and am not open to exploring romantic connections or dating. If you are seeking something else, no judgment, and I wish you joy, but I am not the energy you are seeking.
About Sessions with Me:
- Touching is platonic only, no touching breasts or genitals over or under clothing. Proper undergarments are always worn and covered with reasonably modest clothing. I choose not wear low cut/revealing outfits or short skirts, etc for our time together. The goal is peaceful and soothing human connection without worry or pressure on either side that other motives are present.
- Our first meeting needs to be in public, for general safety, as well as to see if I'm the right energy for you. I suggest a walk arm-in-arm, hugging, hand-holding over something to eat, my head on your shoulder (or yours mine)..window shopping, exploring the park with a coffee, a playful mini-golf outing, walking with your pet, etc. You can share anything on your mind - your aspirations, fears, failures, successes, jokes, bucket list.. show me your favorite memes of funnny videos, anything important of you that you want to be seen and heard, I'm here for you.
- We go at your pace. If you struggle with being touched, I will work with you on your terms. I am also available to teach you about the best kind of (non-sexual) touch for professional relationships, as well as affectionate (non-sexual) touch for a partner or potential partner.
- You can talk a lot, or none. The time together is focused on your needs. If you wish to talk about something in your life, I will listen, and will happily offer feedback if you ask, or simply listen and validate your feelings. Of note, I will not talk extensively about myself because the focus is you. I have multiple degrees and I've led business teams, large projects, and worked in highly complex fields. So I'm game for being an active or passive partner in you sharing your interests and ideas.
- If we have the right connection, we can talk about additional time together and what aspects of touch/cuddle therapy interests you.
- A very specific kind of touch I can share if it interests you is basic/intermediate boxing and Muay Thai.
- Examples of touch I can offer: Hand holding, light hand/arm massage, light hair/neck touching, long and short hugs, holding you/eachother full body (non-sexual), playful/joyous fun affection and cuddles on a walk/activity, cuddling while watching a movie, barefoot (non-sexual) touch. Note: I am not a massage therapist, so I am unable to do extended or deep pressure massage.
- Final note: for all sessions, I do require that we both are clean and hygenic. For example, if you would like to have your hair stroked, please have fairly freshly washed hair. I will be clean and pleasant-smelling and since we will be in close contact, please provide the same within reason :)
If you read this far, and have any questions or want to explore an intro cuddle meetup, go ahead and reach out. I hope you have a peaceful and purposeful day my friend!
Additional Notes and Policies
Q: What about Travel time?
A: I do ask that my dear clients cover my travel time and expense. If travel to you is under 10 miles one way, I only ask you to cover my time. If travel to you is over 10 miles, I ask that you please cover my time as well as the standard mileage expense (currently $0.67 per mile). Other types of travel arrangements are also covered by clients, and we can negotiate :-)
Q: What about other activities such as cuddling at a theme park, or experiencing touch and affection over a coffee/dinner?
A: As the client, it is expected that you will cover any and all expenses related to any activities you may wish to invite me to. Playful affection during activities is one of my favorite experiences because it produces a joyful, light, free kind of experience that combines touch along with the fun of doing something together.
Q: Is there a minimum or maximum number of hours for a session with you?
A: I suggest a first introductory session of 2-3 hours (again, in public for a first session). This will likely cover the travel element and allow time to acquaint with touch without being too rushed. If the session is enjoyable, extending the session on the spot is often an option. I enjoy booking "all day" sessions (4-8 hours) once we have established a good connection, involving extended cuddling, fun activities, etc. Note, I do not book extended/overnight sessions until a very trusting relationship is formed (as always, platonic only, and with therapeutic cuddling as the primary purpose). :-)
Q: Do you do virtual sessions?
A: I am open to virtual sessions! Since we cannot touch physically, it is important for me to first understand what you hope to receive in a virtual session - what a beneficial session would be for you - to ensure I can provide the right kind of experience for you.
Q: Do you enjoy what you do?
A: Yes! You only pay for my time and any activity expenses. My human connection with you and my desire to joyfully impact your day is genuine, and I am so blessed to have wonderful clients who see the value in human touch and connection.