About me
♥ About Me ♥
Close friends (I asked them for help with this) describe me as, “a thinker and a dreamer, humble, talented, passionate, dedicated to truth and loving” and “self-reflexive, analytical, honest, full of heart, and a fighter!”
In more practical terms, I’m a music, nature and animal and art lover. So snuggling at an outdoor music show with your dog beside us is probably my dream cuddle date♡
My Love Languages are Physical Touch (big shocker there, I’m sure) and Quality Time. I’m an INFJ if that matters to anyone (doesn’t really matter to me, but it sure explains a lot lol). I would describe myself as both silly and serious, dark humored but light hearted, and generally just really into being horizontal with a warm, loving person.
♥ I LOVE being Big Spoon ♥ Something about hanging on your back like a monkey just feels right
I use pet names frequently: honey, darlin, sweetie, sweet stuff, chulo/chula, chiquito, cabron! etc. if you don't like this just lmk. There's a great quote by Zsa Zsa Gabor that says "I call everyone 'Darling' because I can't remember their names."
Anyway, enough about me. Let’s discuss why we are here, yes?
Before the pandemic hit, I had put out an ad for Professional Cuddler in March 2020 but had no time to actually do it. I wanted to provide a platonic service for the chronically stressed and touch hungry. I can’t imagine how much greater the need is now.
This is for folks who are hurting, isolated, ill, widowed, differently abled and just plain lonely.
While I do believe everyone is deserving of attention, affection and comfort, I will give preference to those who tend to go without. Age and gender do not matter. Veterans so very welcome ♥
The benefits of platonic touch are going to be obvious and overstated to this community, so I’ll be brief. Touch is a physical and psychological need that works on our hormonal systems which influence our stress response and overall wellbeing. Touch is more important than we realize, and there’s a mountain of evidence to support this practice.
♡ I want to do my part to normalize platonic touch. All of our interactions have been sexualized to such an unhealthy degree that it’s become important(to me) that we learn to exist with each other in plain, loving and non sexualized ways. To me, that's what this site has the potential to offer.
I’m grateful to have the chance to support myself while going through a difficult time, doing something I’ve always wanted to do. I hope you all find what you're looking for, and I hope to meet those of you who are looking for someone like me ♥
I can be a guest at your home or in public at a park or movie theatre (I like AFS). We can snuggle up in bed, or crash the couch to watch your favorite show or movie. I'm flexible in the details: music, silence, conversation, asmr stuff, whatever you like. It will please me tremendously to leave you feeling good and grounded. We can take a nap if it comes to that ♡ I’d consider it a compliment!
Need to Know & FAQ:
✽ A brief zoom call is required before booking to establish connection, preferences & safety.
✽I’m not able to host at this time. We can meet at your home, a park, movie theatre or other public venue. I will not meet at a hotel until rapport has been established.
✽Cuddles must be sober. No substance use or drinking while we spend time together. Exceptions can be made once rapport is established.
✽Hygiene and cleanliness are required. Please shower and brush your teeth prior to session. I have no problem asking you to do this and counting it as part of our time.
✽Please do not wear cologne or strong scents. Deodorant, yes. Cologne, no.
✽Ensure bedding is clean & inviting ♡
✽I don’t play dress up, so please don’t ask. I’ll be in clean, soft loungewear. any mention of heels will be met with scorn lol
✽I’m extremely sensitive to body spray, room sprays and cologne/perfume**
✽I'm also extremely allergic to cats :( like wheezing and puffy face allergic. So sad.
❃In general I’m a HSP, so loud, bright, smelly and rough fabrics are frowned upon. Low lights are king in my house!
❃If you need to cancel, please provide at least 24 hours notice. I’ll give you the same courtesy.
↪ If personal boundaries are not respected or cuddle comfort rules are not honored, the session will end immediately and there will not be a refund. Zero bungle tolerance!
READY TO BOOK ?
Cuddle Session Pricing:
$100/hr
Virtual Sessions: if you live far away, for example. Or just want to connect but cant make it in person <3
$40/half hour
$70/hour
Payment:
I accept Cash payments as well as payment through CashApp, Venmo and Paypal.
Payment is expected upon arrival before we begin cuddling.
Non-Refundable Deposit:
I ask for a nonrefundable $20.00 deposit (which will be applied to the cost of your session) upon booking to hold your appointment spot and cut down on no-shows. Don’t make me leave my house for nothin, please!
My Availability:
This will fluctuate, but generally I’m available from late morning to early evenings. No late night calls. Not until we get to know each other quite well. I cannot travel far at the moment, either.
Just reach out to schedule something and I’ll get back to you ♡