About me
3 years a widower, taking care of my two grandkids and doing some work while being retired. I find that I need human contact in the cleanest way possible. Having been in commited relationships for the past 45 years and then suddenly lost my significant lady in the Covid, I am missing human contact that I had grown accustomed to. My friends would describe me as a calm, respectful, caring, open minded person with a good sense of humor. For me cuddling drops my stress level and increases life energy.
The following I had found by a fellow lady cuddler, that I think is a great way for the ladies here to think about when considering accepting a cuddle offer.
She writes: I need to feel safe with you before I'm willing to be alone with you, so if you're not willing to spend time getting to know each other in person, in public, until I feel comfortable with you, please do not contact me. Until I reach that level, I WILL NOT go anywhere alone with you and cuddling will be done at movie theaters. I get to decide when I've reached that level, without pressure from anyone.
Before I will meet you anywhere other than a public place, I will ask for a picture of your driver's license. This and the address where we are meeting, as well as any other pertinent details, will be given to my best friend and safety consultant, to ensure my safety. If you are not comfortable with this requirement, kindly keep scrolling.
It has been my experience that men who do not live near me have unrealistic expectations about how quickly I should be willing to invite them into my home. For this reason I will most likely not respond if you live more than about 30 minutes from me.
I will not compromise on my safety so please don't ask. I will not move the conversation from here before I'm very sure of you, so please don't ask. I'll let you know. If we make plans to meet for the first time and you cancel with less than 24 hours notice, I will not reschedule. I don't cuddle with married men who are not being fully transparent with their spouses. I dislike having to be so firm, but the need to do so has made itself evident.
I hope this helps you ladies and let's see if we can make this world safer and help make cuddling more available for all of us. Thank you!!
Facts
Join Date |
July 2021 |
Orientation |
Straight |
Status |
Widowed |
Cuddles |
Women |
Can be |
Guest, Public |
Preferred Days |
Sun, Fri, Sat |
Preferred Times |
Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night |
Preferred Age |
42 - 74 |
Fav. Movie |
Love Actually |
Fav. TV Show |
The Big Bang Theory, Seinfeld |
Location: |
Douglasville, GA |
Height |
6' 1" |
Body Type |
A little extra |
Car Owner |
Yes |
Pets |
None at the moment |
Drinks |
No |
Smokes |
No |
Ethnicity |
White |
Religion |
Christianity |
Job |
Part Time self employed |
Children |
Has children |
No friends to show yet :(
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