I am a huge cuddlebug! Physical touch is my "love language" but of course it's not just romantic, I love to hug my friends and just have a girls night and snuggle up together watching a movie and talking. I am a big nerd as well, I play video games, anything from Intellivison from the 80s, to Apex Legends. RPGs, FPS, Strategy, Adventure, Arcade, I love all of it. I play D&D, ref roller derby, read a TON, like to bake, sew and make things, play bass guitar and probably several other hobbies I can't think of right now.
Friends would describe me as easy to talk to, empathetic, and willing to offer advice or just be a sympathetic ear when they need to vent to someone in a safe space. Hopefully I can do the same for you! This goes without saying but any conversations that we have are kept 100% private. : ) I am glad to cuddle anyone regardless of race, age, orientation, gender identity or other identifiers. I am married and polymerous, my partner is 100% aware and supportive of this but I do understand that not everyone has that support and I am glad to be discreet for you.
I have been cuddling professionally but am new to CC so I look forward to meeting new people.
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Availability
Sessions must be booked no less than three days ahead of time for my normal rates and we must video chat first.
Monday-Friday: After 5pm
Saturday-Sunday: Open
Cuddle Sessions
I do my best to make my cuddle sessions a nurturing and relaxing experience. If you are looking for a platonic and therapeutic service I encourage you to reach out to me. I do abide by cuddle comfort’s policies and I do not accept extra money to violate these policies.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/terms/client-service-agreement
Booking process:
1. Introduce yourself and let me know that you would like to book a cuddle sessions.
2. Let me know the day, time and location you would like to have a session. (see FAQs for me hosting)
* I do not take same day bookings
3. Once we agree to a time and a place I will send you a booking request.
4. After you have confirmed the booking request we will exchange numbers and set up a video chat. I prefer to use Google Meet but can use Zoom if needed. I do not use snapchat or other forms of social media to communicate. A video chat is a MUST if you want to book a session with me. This is so we get to know one another to establish trust and comfort. These video chats are only about 5 to 15 minutes and they do not cost anything they are essentially just a consultation and are different from my hour long virtual sessions.
*No appointment is official until we video chat. Do not book a hotel until we have video chatted.
5.After we have had a video chat you will send me a 50% deposit for the total cost of the session including travel fees, to my Venmo PayPal or cash app. For more details on my cancellation and deposit policy please scroll down to the FAQ section
6. I will reconfirm the session with you usually the night before or the morning of the session. I will text you my ETA when I get in the car.
7. We have our cuddle session 😊
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Virtual Sessions:
I offer virtual sessions for $40 an hour. Please note that these sessions will be platonic just like my cuddle sessions. I do not do virtual sessions for less than $40 or one hour.
My time zone is Eastern Standard Time. I can sometimes do same day virtual sessions but not last minute, I need at least a couple hours notice. I do not do sessions after midnight (EST) because I want to be awake and alert so I can be fully present for you.
Booking Process:
Step 1: We agree upon a time for a video session.
Step 2: I send you a booking request.
Step 3: You accept the booking request.
Step 4: We exchange phone numbers.
Step 5: We agree upon a payment method and a video chat platform. My preferred payment methods are Paypal and Venmo and my preferred video chat platforms are again, Meet or Zoom.
Step 6: You pay me before the session begins. All sessions must be paid for upfront, no exceptions.
Step 7: We have our session 😊
FAQ’s
Q: Do you host?
A: I do not host in my home but if you need me to "host" as the person getting the hotel room so it does not show up on your transactions, I can do that. We can discuss accommodation rates if you wish to go that route.
Q: Can you get on post?
A: Yes, if need be, I can get a pass to get on post.
Q: Do you charge for travel?
A: Within 30 minutes from my house, it is all inclusive. If you book a 3 hour minimum, up to an hour of travel each way is included. Outside of that, additional travel time will be discussed.
Q: Can you do a session today?
A: Not unless you booked with me yesterday or earlier. I need to know the night before at the very latest if we are going to have a session. I am not on call just waiting around for somebody to book me last minute. When it comes to virtual sessions I am more flexible but still need a heads up of a few hours.
Q: What do you wear?
A: Soft, comfortable, cuddle attire (eg. leggings, sweatpants, shorts, t-shirts, tank tops). I am willing to consider clothing requests but will not wear anything that goes against CC's guidelines and rules.
Q: What should I wear?
A: Please refer to cuddle comfort’s client agreement for what is and what is not appropriate. I suggest you wear comfortable clothing like pajamas, sweatpants or gym shorts and a tank top or t-shirt. Underwear/ boxers is not a substitute for shorts and all pants/ shorts must not have an opening in the crotch area.
Q: What can I expect from our session?
A: I usually spend a little time talking and getting to know you during the first session before we start cuddling. During the session we can talk, listen to music, cuddle in silence, watch tv, play games or other things you might enjoy, we can discuss this at the initial video call.
Q: How far do you travel?
A: Due to COVID-19, I am not currently willing to fly or go outside a 2 hour radius at this time unless I am generously compensated and all terms are agreed upon.
Q:How long are your sessions?
A: Normally the shortest session I am willing to do is one hour provided that the session is less than 30 minutes away from me and the longest session I will do is 8 hours for a first session, I do not do overnight sessions with new clients and am not currently offering multi day sessions.
Q: What is your deposit cancellation policy?
A: All new clients must make a 50% deposit after we have completed the consultation video call if that client wishes to move forward with having a cuddle session. If the client cancels with more than 48 hours notice the deposit can be applied as credit towards a future session. If the session is canceled with less than 48 hours notice the deposit will not be refunded unless I feel that the circumstances were extenuating and that will only be done at my discretion. The only way a client will get a cash refund is if I have to cancel on my end. Any client that is a no-show will permanently be banned from my cuddling services.
Q: Where do we cuddle?
A: I can come to your home, or you can get a hotel room. I ask that the hotel be clean, safe and respectable and not a cheap motel. I will not cuddle in cars, parks or other public venues because these locations pose safety and privacy concerns, but am always glad to book a public session for time to spend together with the understanding that there can only be less physical cuddling but we can go do something fun that you enjoy.
Q: I am uncomfortable with video chat can you make an exception for me?
A: No, my safety comes first.
Q: I don’t have a smart phone or don’t know how to video chat, can you make an exception for me?
A: No, my safety comes first, however I can work with you if you are willing to video chat ok a computer or tablet
Q: I can’t make a deposit because I don’t use the money transfer apps or I am worried about my wife finding out. Can you make an exception for me?
A: No, my time, safety and financial security comes first.