Starbeam

I am kind, considerate and thoughtful. I am a caregiver by nature. I try to help people as much as I can, in a healthy way. I'm a single mom who often feels like the weight of the world is on her shoulders... Raising a child to be happy, healthy and whole is a hard, wonderful, exhausting job.

I'm outgoing and very talkative. I love to laugh and be silly, even though I'm more often serious because life can be hard. My emotions are big. I laugh loud, I cry often (over the good and the bad, for myself and for others). I love to dance around my kitchen, cooking and singing. Feeding others is a passion of mine. I love seeing the way their faces light up the first time they try something I've made. I love taking photos on my phone, especially of nature.

I value the feeling of being held, of being connected, of feeling important. I enjoy making other people feel important. I firmly believe that everyone needs to feel cherished and appreciated often.

My favorite way to cuddle is in a relaxing atmosphere while watching TV, listening to music, talking, reading or just laying down and quietly holding each other. I enjoy resting my head on my cuddle buddies shoulder with our arms wrapped around each other. I love being the little spoon. I prefer being held but I also enjoy holding others. I am very touch oriented and I'm looking for someone who understands that touch leads to intimacy, not just sex. I am not looking for sex, just safe friendly touch.

I try to be as open and honest as possible, as those are important qualities to me. I do have a boyfriend and he knows I cuddle and is supportive and encouraging of it... I am in the infancy of being polyamorous. ( No... that doesn't mean I'm going to have sex with you.) So, if you're looking for someone who wants to hookup, I wish you good luck, but that's not me.

I love having someone hold me. It makes me feel cherished and protected, even if it's for just a little while. I'm strong. I'm resilient. I've had a lot of hard experiences in my life and it doesn't look like they will stop anytime soon. Being held helps me forget the weight of the world for awhile so I can recharge and be ready to face life's challenges with grace and poise.

Life has been really crazy the last year so I don't get on here very often. If I don't answer your message, please understand that it's probably because life is a bit (or A LOT) too chaotic to squeeze in the extra time for cuddles. 😔 Summer, especially, is often a difficult time to find time to meet up, as I have my child full time. Thanks for your interest, patience, and understanding. I am hoping fall will be allow for a bit more time for myself.