About me
It occurs to me that I've been single for about 5 years now (I haven't the heart to try again just yet) and I've scarcely had any physical contact with anyone since that time. A sad state of affairs, indeed, for an affectionate and tactile person. I feel a little insane doing this and I have no idea how to go about it but, driven by skin hunger as I am, I'll give it the old college try.
I'm not really looking for sex, but I very much miss having a male companionship. Masculine energy is comforting to me (and guys are just easier to be around) and so I am looking for companionship, some laughter, interesting conversation and, eventually, physical intimacy in the form of some manner of non-sexual cuddling. Intelligence is important to me. You needn't be a member of MENSA, but articulate conversation will go a long way to forming some type of connection.
I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be just having someone show up for a random cuddle, so I'd like to meet first. Drinks, dinner, whatever. We can get a sense of one another, go home, think about it, and see if we want to go from there. Who wants to cuddle with someone they wouldn't want to hang out with? Awkward.
I don't know if this matters or not, but I would imagine that some form of attraction matters in a situation like this (?) so I'll describe myself: I'm 5'9. Decidedly average in attractiveness. A little overweight but curvy (small waist, big hips and thigh).
I'm not looking for love, or promises of long term anything; just an occasional movie night cuddle with wine and someone who makes me smile and laugh. If however, it turns into a really awesome friendship with depth, how cool would that be?
Sharing this type of intimacy outside of a romantic relationship one is currently in (even if it's non-sexual) is inappropriate, so please be completely unattached.
I've always imagined that these types of connections would evolve in my life in a more organic way; but it seems that as the world is changing and we grow more and more disconnected from one another (a hug can get you fired, nowadays), the way we attempt to connect with one another has also changed. I'm just trying to keep up.
Thanks for reading!
Facts
Join Date |
October 2017 |
Orientation |
Straight |
Status |
Single |
Cuddles |
Men |
Preferred Days |
Sun, Fri, Sat |
Preferred Times |
Evening, Night |
Preferred Age |
35 - 50 |
Location: |
Columbus, OH |
Height |
5' 9" |
Body Type |
Curvy |
Car Owner |
Yes |
Drinks |
Socially |
Ethnicity |
Black |
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