Transhpandigans

Cuddling is like therapy without words. We all need to feel connected and caring touch can help with that. Being a safe person for others to come to, feel seen, and increase oxytocin through embrace - that's what brought me here.

My ideal cuddle partner would be someone who respects my boundaries, is considerate, shares their feelings, and is true to themselves and honest about who they are.

Before messaging, please read the following safety guidelines that I follow:

I need to feel safe before I'm willing to be alone with anyone. If you're not willing to start with sessions in public places, please do not contact me. Until I reach the needed comfort level, I WILL NOT go anywhere alone with you and cuddling will be done at movie theaters (open to other public space requirements with enough time to vent them). I get to decide when I've reached that level, without any pressure.

Before I will meet you anywhere other than a public place, I will ask for a picture of your driver's license. This and the address where we are meeting, as well as any other pertinent details, will be given to my best friend and safety consultant, to ensure my safety. If you are not comfortable with this requirement, I will not be able to meet with you.

I will not compromise on my safety, so please don't ask.

I will not move the conversation from here before I'm very sure of you, so please don't ask. I'll let you know.

If we make plans to meet for the first time and you cancel with less than 24 hours notice, I will not reschedule.