WeatherTogether

It can be hard to find comforting touch when you are an adult and not in a relationship. And yet it has so many benefits for health and wellbeing, especially in these stressful times. So let’s weather it together. : )

Hi, my name is Heather. I’ve been told I’m a down to earth person. I truly care about people. I have lots of mom energy and I’m a good listener. I feel good about making people feel better.

Here’s how cuddle therapy works for me:

We have a phone call and see if we are on the same page. We meet for coffee or a walk, maybe more than once. We can talk about expectations, and I’m happy to answer any and all of your questions. You share a pic of your drivers license with me. When I feel safe being alone with you, we can schedule a time to get together for cuddling.

We agree to take care of ourselves by asking for what we want and respecting the other’s answer, and not taking it personally if the answer is ‘no.’ Consent is the foundation of safety and respect. I’m sure we can find ways to cuddle that are mutually satisfying. Or if you’d rather spend time sharing a meal, or just talking, that’s great too.

I know a lot of men find closeness in sex, but I’ve found that once you take sex off the table, then really interesting other kinds of intimacy show up. To be clear, no actions or jokes about sex will be allowed. If a person gets turned on (because we are human) we can have a frank and honest conversation about it, but we agree we will not act on those feelings.

At its core, cuddle therapy is simply human connection, without the need to perform or impress. My goal is to create a ‘container’ where true connection can happen, where you feel truly seen and heard. I promise to treat you with unconditional positive regard.

About me:

I moved across the country in 2025 from the Midwest, so am still building community in Eugene. I like walking and hiking. I work part time as a massage therapist and geek out on health and psychology stuff. I shop the thrift stores, sing in a choir, eat too many sweets, and marvel every day at the incredible scenery here.
And I find meaning in helping people feel a sense of belonging and connectedness. Feel free to contact me with your questions. And thanks for reading.