Zoidberg

Hmm, well I'm an open, very affectionate geek. Love me some sitcoms or scifi, old videogames [anything more than 16 or 32 bits is too many], board games and mindsports. I have very few friends and none I really see in real life anymore, so I lack basic physical touch and affection, despite the fact everyone needs it, and I'm especially cuddly when I'm close to someone. Simple things like hand holding, hair stroking, laying on someones shoulder. They make such a difference to feeling good and cared for. It's like having a weight of life lifted off you, and I would love to give that same feeling of happiness and peace to others, any gender, wide age range too. It's so sad how society has hypersexualised touch.

I love to hold hands, give long sweet hugs and rub someone's back, stroke their hair and arms. Cheek or forehead kissing too. Wrap my arm around them and just hold them, on my shoulder, in my lap, however they feel best. I love all the same being done, and also when someone just very tenderly touches my back, not massage at all, just tracing over it, little soft touches. That can be the most incredible relaxing thing to me.