👋🏼 Hi! How are you?
I’m a compassionate, empathetic person who loves hearing people's stories and getting to know who they are as a human being. I’ve been told my presence is calming and I’m a good listener. Let me be there for you. I believe in the healing properties active listening and being in the presence of others. I am new to this site and have had experience cuddling for a few years before the pandemic.
🫂 In-person sessions are $80/hour. I do not offer overnight sessions for any reason.
👩🏻💻 I do offer Virtual sessions for $40/hour, and $80/2-hours to chat. (Virtual sessions don't require an in person public first meeting and may be booked as a vetting meeting.)
I prefer to meet at a coffee shop in a public space before actually booking an in-person cuddle session. This first meeting will be for one hour and will cost you my cup of tea. It's use is to discuss what you are looking for, vet your interest and intentions, and set terms of agreement. A personal profile will be created that is for my eyes only and will not be shared except in cases of violating agreements. My safety and yours is of the utmost importance. I reserve the right to walk away at anytime.
Unfortunately, I am not able to accept appointments that are within 24hours. Travel is negotiable and will be agreed upon in writing. I will accept payment upfront at the beginning of the session through CashApp, Venmo, or cash. Payment will be required prior to travel in the case of long distance sessions.
I'm not interested in being a pretend girlfriend, nor am I interested in being a professional with a clipboard who does "techniques" on you. I'll show up with genuine care, the ability to be accepting of who you are, and an amazing listening ear. We can spend our time watching TV/Movie, playing board games, talking, reading, and being present in the moment.
This is strictly a platonic arrangement. Any violation of that will not be tolerated.
I don’t discriminate on the basis of age, sex, gender, orientation, body type, race, religion, or ethnicity. I do discriminate on the basis of whether you exude bad, creepy vibes.
✅ Some things that make me feel more comfortable and get my attention:
- Introduce yourself first. Tell me something about yourself. Give me a chance to get to know you before jumping right into cuddling.
- Suggest meeting at a public place for a first meeting.
- If you have a photo and your profile is filled out, that definitely works in your favor.
- If you’re in a relationship, explain how that works. Does your partner know about your cuddling and are they comfortable with that?
🚩 Some things that make me feel cautious:
- Profiles with no photo and tell nothing about you.
- First messages that say essentially nothing. Remember, you're trying to start a conversation. Please have something to say. Tell me something about yourself.
- Jumping right into cuddling in the first message. I prefer to meet in person at a public venue to chat and find out who you are and what you are looking for.
- Want to meet at your place or mine for a first meeting, expressing reluctance to meet in a public place.
- Sending shirtless photos or suggesting activities beyond cuddling, such as mutual massage. This starts giving the impression that you’re looking for more than cuddles.
📖 You might want to read over this forum thread on safe cuddling:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/3103/tips-on-staying-safe#latest
If you’ve read this far and are still interested, send me a message! I'd love to get to know you!