crispywings87

Hello, Im Vee. Im 38. Im single, a Toronto-native ( Go Jays! ) and live and commute in the greater Toronto area.

I live a quiet slow-pace lifestyle by choice. I remain single because I find relationships to be unaccommodating to my particular needs at the moment.

I suffer from PTSD and have some attachment issues that make it difficult to be committed to something long term. So for this reason I choose to be single.

However, Im finding it difficult to cope with my traumas and need for human touch as a solitary individual. I need human touch to recharge myself and feel emotional and mentally satiated. Sadly there is no alternative to accommodate this part.

Having only recently discovered cuddlecomfort, I felt that I would be living a hollow existence because where else could I find a noncommittal partner(s) to give the nurturing and intimate bond that my emotional capacity needs?

I hope cuddlecomfort can help!

I prefer older woman ( no upper age limit ) but I am open to woman of any age. Younger is fine too but it would depend on the vibe.

I need the following:
someone who is non-judgemental about my needs and condition
someone that is kind, caring, and open-minded
someone that is comfortable in silence
preference for someone that can be maternal in her energy and is comfortable being the bigger spoon. I am tall so this may be a challenge 😊

Ive been responsible for so many people over the last 15 years that I need to feel like im the one being looked after for once. Im the centre of attention. I dont want feel like an adult with you, I need to feel smaller.

Can you hold a fragile piece of splintered china in your hand without feeling nervous? Without judgement? Can you see a broken dish that needs nurturing and compassion and not something that needs to be thrown away or replaced? Can I feel vulnerable in your presence because it's a safe zone?

If so, I can be open to starting something with you.

Sincerely, Vee.

ps: I will take my time to find the right person. If I dont respond to any messages, im not ignoring anyone. I just take my time to sort through things and move at my own pace. please be patient if you message me. thank you in advance.