So I'm new too this and I'm not sure how to start messaging people. I know how to but I'm not sure what to say or if I should at all. Is it better to just wait for messages or should I message first idk what to do T^T
Everything you might want to know, and much more besides, is in these threads:
How I found happiness on Cuddle Comfort (man seeking enthusiast women)
How I Found Happiness on CC Part 2: The First Meeting
I'm a non-pro woman on this site, and here's what I look for in a first message.
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
Ten Things Your Professional Cuddler Wants You to Know
How to Save Money on Professional Cuddling
Understanding Boundaries & Etiquette
Meeting Somebody From The Internet – Safety Precautions
How to Create a Great Profile
@Redderbite @CuddleDuncan has posted some great starter links to look at.
You'll probably have to message most people first... Don't get discouraged if you don't get a response as it can take time to find someone to cuddle as an enthusiast.
If you are wanting to pay for a session, you can always reach out to a pro to try and schedule a session.