@Kense I think we are on the same page here. You want a female body to cuddle, and don't care about the orientation of the brain at the top ; so you would agree that it is no more relevant to have in one's profile than "Do you have an uncle called Bob ?" Some females might feel that a gay man is as safe to cuddle as a woman ; but stating that on a forum is as easy as a soldier putting on a civilian jacket to infiltrate the enemy.
@ubergigglefritz They say that Eskimos have N words for snow. British English has N words for sex, and new ones are being made up every day.
I agree. People lie, you can put anything you want in the profile. The thing that gets me is people using old pics that look nothing like them as if you're not going to see how they really look when you meet up.
I had someone actually have a different person pictured from behind and then when he sent me a pic from the front so i could recognize him, it was clearly someone else. I think he probably did it to get more women to respond , because when I gave him that feedback, he said he "had his reasons." For me, whatever you look like, deception means no go.
@littermate I deleted my original photo, because I was sick of people saying how much I looked like Brad Pitt. That was probably my mistake for copying it off a DVD box.
@geoff1000 heh heh.
@ littermate looks like you have the photo thing figured out , I mean , all you have to do is stick you finger in the nearest electrical socket and there you are , just like your profile photo . Why can’t I think of that .
Advice to females : If you get asked for nude photos taken when you were younger, send an ultrasound scan.
@cuddlerforu24 some of us are just extra gifted
Electro- gifted
I'd say 99% of all my experiences have been incredibly positive and a good time with people who respected boundaries and truly in this for platonic support.
I vet my clients and tend to weed out any potentially negative experiences, but truly, close to everyone I've cuddled, had been respectful and in it for the right reasons. 💗
Be it professionally or personal, there will always be bad apples, terrible clients in any job field, or just plain disrespectful individuals who rather cheapen the experience and push others boundaries.
Don't let those bad experiences, those stupid people, live rent free in your mind. I promise you, genuine connection is possible.
@MissAdventurous that's because you are so incredibly intuitive. You are one of the few pros I keep close and hope to meet someday. You have a knack for reaching through cyberspace into the cuddlesphere. People like you make the jungle worth it.
@PeopleLikeUs "cuddlesphere" 👍
Cuddlesphere!
I was lured here for free cuddles then...
WHAMMO.
Gimmeh munneh.
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@cuddlefidget I doubt that. I've never met any pros who were anything more than platonic cuddlers. Or maybe I'm naive and missing out on all the fun
@cuddlefidget I’d rather you not call pros a “ho in training”. I understand that some women are charging exorbitant amounts of money and yes, some if not most, are possibly here under false pretences, but I’d like you to not throw cruelties around.
Thanks @Sheena123. I flagged the comment but you did one better by directly speaking to it. I too felt a stab in that post @cuddlefidget. The women on here who cuddle for a living (or a partial living) are providing a service that many deeply appreciate. They are not whores - they are sweethearted amazing women who have a capacity to hold lots of people in their hearts and arms and should be compensated for their time so that this exquisite service can be available to those who appreciate being held and loved on in a culture where that can be rare for some folks.
@littermate thank you! That was so nice for you to say! I appreciate that 💖💖 you always have such a positive outlook and I’m sure it grows on anyone you come across!
I once worked part time as a taxi-driver. For the right price, I would take anyone, anywhere. In my local café, there's an attractive young woman, who for the right price will make anyone a range of hot beverages or light snacks, even some which aren't on the menu. We both do things for money, that others might do for free, and there is a degree of "intimacy" involved, because they involve close contact and behaviours that a "significant other" might do. One might therefore describe either of us, as simply training for the most extreme form of "commercialised hospitality". Anyone who said that too loud and often, would soon find themselves banned from taxi ranks and cafés.
Sure, many people want to hitch a free ride, or get a free meal just by knocking on someone's door. However, they shouldn't assume that such offers will be easy to find, and if they don't want to pay with money, they must expect to pay with other currencies, such as showing respect. "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth."
I think pro cuddlers are in training ; they are in the business of training their clients to behave so well, that they can find non-pro partners. That means they are working very hard, to make themselves redundant. "Teach a man to fish, and you will make your fishmonger shop go out of business."
@Sheena123
To answer the question prob about 60% come on here just for cuddling
37% of all statistics are made up on the spot.
Yeah @freespirited where did you come up with that number?
A month's worth of experience? A wild guess? He's psychic?
I do think a certain percentage of people probably seek platonic cuddling because they are emotionally unavailable for a real romantic relationship, or haven't had any luck in finding one. In my case, I love having platonic cuddle buddies, and I am also open to a romantic relationship if the right woman came along.
That said, I don't feel like a romantic partner would replace my existing cuddle buddies, as those friendships are important to me in their own right. However, if those cuddle buddies got jealous or upset about me dating someone, then those friendships would most likely have to end or at least have re-negotiated boundaries.
@Sheena123. I reserve my judgment on women who are pros until I actually met that particular pro. For the most part, I think most are not hoes and men who pay to cuddle are not tricks or desperate incels. We live in a society where men has to pay cash for women one way or another so do it if it has a benefit. I don't know the % of men who has an agenda other than good vibes and companionship but we all in the community must weave out the weeds
@MrCuddlenity with how many women are out here on the site with the wrong ideas, it’s definitely a good idea to reserve your judgement before meeting them or at least having a conversation with them. I’m with you in that! I just didn’t like the comment that was made earlier. It grinded me the wrong way 😕
I’m happy you’re helping us weed the baddies ! ☺️
I had a guy from on here warn me that he may get hard from our cuddling and it’s just a natural response when he’s relaxed and in the presence of an attractive woman but he wasn’t expecting me to do anything about it. Well sure enough he got hard, then expected me to help him out with it. When I hesitated and didn’t say yes or no, he sexually assaulted me. I’ve been sexually assaulted on three dates in my lifetime.