I aspire to clothes-free living so i am more than comfortable being nude. Having said that i would probably cuddle clothed with someone new for the first few times at least.
@lydia1979 I totally agree with you except for one clarification. I would never expect anyone from this site to cuddle nude with me. Even asking someone here if they are interested in it, without expecting them to do it with you can have bad repercussions. I was attacked here repeatedly for doing just that.
Jim
Yes, a few of us have been attacked while covering this topic so I'm not going to write much but I do enjoy adding my opinion. Personally, I have come to the conclusion that a person should simply wear whatever makes them comfortable.
My last cuddle consisted of gym shorts and a tee shirt, which I believe was appropriate, especially in this weather. My cuddle partner wore shorts and a tee shirt without a bra and that actually made me feel good because I felt trusted and it had to have been more comfortable for her. Contrary to what some may believe, it's not a big deal. Again, just wear what's comfortable for you.
@PotatoHead- I had the exact same experience with my last pro cuddle buddy (maybe we saw the same person ..LOL). She was totally comfortable in a yoga shirt /no bra and yoga shorts, and so was I. No boundaries were crossed. Honestly, since I am paying for this service, then I certainly prefer to be comfortable during a session.
@CarlosHunt - Thank you and I'm glad I'm not the only person on here that feels this way. What woman honestly enjoys wearing a bra, especially in this weather and while trying to experience a comfortable session?
The professional I spent time with used to wear one and I can agree with that while trust is being developed but if a client becomes a trusted repeat, I would hope the professional feels comfortable enough to ditch the bra. It's obvious we are not here in hopes of a sexual encounter.
I'm older, I know what they look like, feel like and what their purpose is. It's not a big deal unless it's made to be a big deal. For me, they are a comfort, not sexual and yes, they are still under fabric. I can hop on any subway train or simply walk down a street in Manhattan and see lots of braless women. It doesn't even phase me. If I'm cuddling, I would like to feel a smooth bare back, not a bullet proof vest.
In my opinion, if a professional is that uncomfortable with trying to be comfortable, perhaps she shouldn't be in this type of service to begin with. I don't want to be with anyone if they cringe during a session of hide. This is a up close and personal service.
I have spent thousands of dollars on professional cuddle sessions and if I get a sense that I'm not accepted nor trusted and she's trying hard or is uncomfortable in general, I no longer bother with them. There are some women on here that are actually very cool and some have even admitted to me that they hate wearing a bra but do so anyway out of fear of making the client feel awkward.
It's their body and I would never force a woman to do anything that makes her feel uncomfortable, I'm not here for that and I don't want that kind of a session but at the same time, I'm the client and yes, I would like a session that makes me feel good and trusted. I would hope the professional would too.
I'll tell you one thing, if I was a young attractive woman, I'd be making a financial killing cuddling and I'd be comfortable as hell doing so.