@Cuddledingo ... I enjoy your common sense. "Ultimately cuddling is about comfort and if you're worrying about erections or hygiene or what to wear or what not to wear or how to touch or where to touch or whatever else goes through our minds then you're not comfortable. Discuss these things and find a comfort base line before you start and then relax and explore the cuddle clouds together. "
I suppose the concept of communicating with the individual that you are embarking on cuddling with is a novel concept for some, as well as the idea of feeling out ( no pun intended!) the individual's emotional and mental maturity level.
Been a while since there's been a boner thread. Lolz!
@Spuds you're a troublemaker.
As a female cuddler, I can under stand how it could happen and would take no offense. How you go about it would influence my reaction. If you just straight up apologize and don’t try anything funny like subtle moving to mask dry humping, keep your hands still and in an appropriate place....it’s whatever. Ideally try to turn a bit so I’m not just like getting poked by it lol. But really I feel like expecting this comes with the territory and both parties should be mature about it and almost just laugh at it if it’s genuinely an involuntary thing
I don't think you should handle an erection.
Not sure if anyone has ever brought this up, but there are protective garments that can be a proactive step. Something called a Modesty Pouch, aka a Cock Sock, can be put on before the cuddle starts. It can even be tied to the leg to keep the rising from happening. I have no idea if that's uncomfortable, but it's what actors wear in sex scenes.
If you are over 70 and get an erection I think you pop a cork and celebrate. Otherwise, take a gun course—keep the safety on, lock it away and don’t randomly shoot it off. Above all else, be careful...you could shoot your eye out.
PS: I realise that being concerned about your erection while cuddling is a common concern and it’s valid every time, but what’s with the resurrection of dead threads lately? I thought we had a rule against this?
@Catloaf I've noticed it's a certain couple of guys that are resurrecting these threads. They will respond to things from 2016 for whatever reason.
@Handsomewheels We had an issue with this as recently as 2019 and early 2020. They come and go but the last person who often resurrected dead threads is no longer here, so I would assume that was part of grounds for their ban. Be careful @spuds...
@Catloaf and also @Rocket_Man. Be very careful.
LOL @FunCartel
If that happens to him then I ignore it. There's a lot I can ignore apparently or not even notice. My bf at that time a few years ago said a naked drunk guy ran right passed me once and I'm like when did this happen? And he's like you missed all the crazy running and screaming like a 2 feet away from you like a minute ago? And then my friend comes by and said that drunk was weird. No idea what crazy scene happened that day but whatever.
Out of curiosity, would masturbating before getting together with someone to cuddle help the situation? Asking for a friend.
@ChefKate How many times? Asking for a tube sock.