Hi there, this is my 1st day here...I am still trying to navigate around the site...Any help is greatly appreciated...ICan I buy more messages?
Welcome! No, you can't buy messages because you don't need too. It's the quality of the message that counts here, not the volume.
You may find these threads useful, especially the first few posts in each one:
Understanding Boundaries & Etiquette
How to Create a Great Profile
Meeting Somebody From The Internet – Safety Precautions
I'm a non-pro woman on this site, and here's what I look for in a first message.
How I found happiness on Cuddle Comfort (man seeking enthusiast women)
How I Found Happiness on CC Part 2: The First Meeting
It is easier to believe
How To Choose Your Professional Cuddler
The Perfect Opening Message (to a professional)
Ten Things Your Professional Cuddler Wants You to Know
How to Save Money on Professional Cuddling
Okay, good info...Thank you...
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The advice from my corner over here is when it comes to finding female enthusiasts, keep expectations somewhere between low to zero. I’m not being pessimistic mind you, I’m just being realistic because the ratio of men to women here is exponential, and they are getting bombarded big time.
Make a little effort and make sure to read their profile and see if you can find any common ground. For example, OMG I’ve seen every episode of Game of Thrones too or I agree Yellowstone rocks! Just something to show that you actually read their frigging profile and are taking an interest in THEM.
Another suggestion is absolutely do not go in for the kill so to speak right away. Don’t ask for a cuddle. Don’t come up with a simple sentence like hey, how are you. Are you available for a cuddle next Tuesday? Make an effort. Get invested in the process. Take some time to build trust and rapport. If you get lucky enough to find a unicorn cherish that relationship.
For years, I did not want to do the professional thing route, but I finally acquiesce to it, but there are the good the bad and the ugly in that realm too.
Most important for the moment is populate your profile. Share what you think. Women want to know there’s focus on your awareness of the boundaries within the website. There are constant constant stories of men pushing boundaries so her safety is the absolute number one most important priority in her mind so keep that in mind when you are creating your profile.
Maybe start with sharing a little bit about yourself and why you’re here and what your value proposition is.
Anyway, best of luck to you.
Marc
@seattleslumber2 Welcome to the site! 😊
Regarding your question about buying messages, you have likely been throttled for sending more than the allotted amount of messages for a brand new member. Fear not, this will lift soon, and you will be able to send more messages with each passing day. This is just a safety measure put in place to keep people from spamming.
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And just to add to the great advice from @WestsideMarc Have a nice clear photo to send when you’re ready. I mean pleasant expression, honest eyes, facing forward and most importantly, Wearing Clothes! Not looking sketchy secretive or like a mugshot. (You wouldn’t believe how many creeps show unclothed ones and have an angry resentful look). It might help to view other profiles and think, who looks like a trustworthy type of person? Best of luck and 🤗
Hi, welcome!
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