I wanted to share a perspective regarding Karma points on this platform.
I’ve had my profile here since 2021, and to be honest, I’ve only met with one cuddler during that time. That experience was very positive. My interest in this space comes from something deeper—I genuinely feel more grounded, recharged, and reconnected after safe, human closeness. I believe that may tie back to my past military experiences, where that kind of connection wasn’t always present. Because of that, I truly see the value in what this community offers.
Recently, I reached out to request a session and was told there was hesitation due to my lack of Karma points. I completely respect that providers have every right to choose who they feel comfortable working with—that’s important and should never be questioned.
That said, it does raise a bit of a catch-22. If someone is new (or simply hasn’t had many opportunities yet), and they’re declined based on low or no Karma, it makes it very difficult for them to ever build that trust or reputation in the first place.
Maybe there’s room for a little flexibility—whether that’s through communication, verification, or just giving someone a chance to earn that first bit of trust.
Just my thoughts. I respect everyone’s boundaries, but I also think there’s a balance to be found that supports both safety and fairness in the community.