I am looking for some insight into why fellows are on this site and barely fill anything out in their profiles. Is it that they feel pathetic or embarrassed to be on a cuddle site? Is it that they have a hard time knowing what to say? Is it that they don't want to invest too much? Is it that expressing oneself as a guy in these areas/matters feels risky, feels hard?
As a nonpro, an empty or a very brief profile is nearly grounds for me to eliminate someone, simply because there are plenty of folks who I can get to know from their profiles so why waste time asking a ton of questions? I also expect the person to be as terse in messaging as in their profile. I find I take the presence of a profile to be evidence that a man groks my perspective as a non-pro - i.e. that I want to get to know them in order to build trust about them being a kind, boundaried person.
So I'm interested to hear your perspectives guys. Why do men so often have no profile, or a one or two sentence profile?