So I’ve been told quite a few times by some really nice cuddlers I’ve been with, that they’ve been ghosted by a pro. They make a booking, the day and time is set and all they have to do is wait for the pro to give them their address or hotel. When the day of the cuddle comes, that pro completely ghosts them. They don’t answer the cuddlers confirmation, they don’t send any message for the address or any reasons if it needs to be cancelled. They literally get zero reply back and then the cuddle time is long gone with still no explanation.
Now, what I don’t agree with is this situation getting completely ignored and there is no warning or whatfor given to these pros. These cuddlers even have proof in texts and messages on the site of them getting ghosted, and they’ve been told there is nothing that can be done. Why? Can there not be some kind of warning system that weeds out the pros that don’t care? If there’s an emergency that couldn’t be overlooked, than that’s fine, but if there’s no excuse and there’s actual proof, this shouldn’t get swept under the rug. If they have one or two warnings and they do it a third time, they should be paused for a while or even kicked off the site. These “pros” make the good ones look bad. When the cuddler messes up or keeps ghosting a pro, they get dealt with. I believe it should be both ways. Equality, right?
I care a great deal when this happens because so many are lonely, looking for affection, have dealt with so much rejection or they need to feel like someone cares. They trust this “pro” to be professional but instead they get ignored and feel so dejected 😞 and like I said, a lot of the cuddlers that come to me and say this has happened to them, these are great people. Super respectful! I can’t see any reason for them to receive this rude smack in the face.
Pros: if you honestly just don’t want to carry out a session maybe because you’re nervous, or you’re superficial and would rather cuddle only Chris Hemsworth guys, or you just don’t care about the person, they deserve to actually get a message back saying “never mind”. Keep in mind, the only reason you should be denying or cancelling a session is either because of an emergency, you aren’t feeling well, or you feel unsafe with them. If these aren’t your reasons, you are in the wrong field. Treat these cuddlers with respect! It makes me so mad...