lilhugdealer

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🗣️ RECENT UPDATES!!
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I AM HOSTING AGAIN!! Yay! Please see that section below for details. PLEASE READ IT SO THERE ARE NO SURPRISES! Thanks 🤗

🤗✨ HI, I’M RILEY ✨🤗

I’m a warm, affectionate, playful professional cuddler based in Long Beach. I’m pretty laid-back, genuinely love cuddling, and put a lot of care into making sure the person I’m with feels comfortable, wanted, relaxed, and actually glad they booked me.

If you’ve never booked a professional cuddle before, don’t overthink it. You don’t need to know what position we’re supposed to cuddle in, come up with an itinerary, entertain me, or worry about filling every silence. That’s literally what this site is for. 😂 Tell me what you’re hoping for, or tell me, “I’ve had a WEEK, please take it from here,” and I can work with either.

I’m very easy to get along with. Be clean, be respectful, communicate with me, show up when we make plans, and don’t push my boundaries. Do those very reasonable things and we are going to get along GREAT. 🤗❤️

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📸 IF YOU WANT TO BOOK ME
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Please send me:

1. Your name
2. A recent photo
3. The day and time you want
4. How long you’d like to book
5. Your general location
6. Whether you can host

I require a recent photo before meeting a new cuddle partner in person. It’s simply a safety thing, and your privacy is respected.

Sending a 30 min proposal with enough time to set up the details so we can exchange number is the best way to set something up quickly and easily. But don’t book for something in 30 min. I get charged at the time of the appointment so keep that in mind when sending proposals. We can always adjust details afterward if needed.

And please give me the information above when you first message me if you can. It saves both of us from playing 20 Questions just to discover you’re in San Diego and want me there in 45 minutes. 😂

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⚡ SAME-DAY CUDDLES
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Yes, I sometimes take same-day bookings! If you wake up and decide that today would be significantly better with cuddles involved, shoot your shot. 🤗

For a session booked on the SAME CALENDAR DAY we’re meeting, I require a 50% deposit to confirm the booking.

This is NOT an extra fee. It goes directly toward your session total.

I’m actually pretty accommodating with last-minute requests, but accommodating them can mean rearranging my day, turning down another booking, changing personal plans, arranging transportation, or otherwise making room for you. Unfortunately, I’ve learned that “Yes, I can make that work” needs to come with a little commitment on both sides. 😂

Once the deposit is received, your time is confirmed and I will make my arrangements around you.

Same-day deposits are non-refundable if you cancel or no-show. If I have to cancel, obviously I will return your deposit.

Deposits may also be required for overnights, long-distance travel, extended sessions, or bookings that require significant arrangements.

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🫂 SO WHAT DO WE ACTUALLY DO?
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Obviously, we cuddle. And unlike some people on a cuddle site who apparently forgot that part of the assignment… I actually cuddle. 😂 I am affectionate and I’m not going to spend two hours perched six inches away from you like we’re waiting at the DMV.

We can cuddle and talk, watch movies, listen to music, order dinner, do scalp or back rubs, laugh about stupid things, go for a walk, go out to eat, attend an event, or just lie there quietly and decompress from humanity for a while.

Some people want to talk for three hours. Some barely want to talk at all. Some want lots of affection, and some just want another person nearby so they don’t feel alone.

I’m good at reading the room, so you don’t need to micromanage the experience. If you know exactly what you like, tell me. If you don’t, we’ll figure it out together.

And if you’re shy or socially awkward, that does not bother me. You don’t have to impress me. I’m a tiny bit shy for the first few minutes sometimes too, and then suddenly we’re discussing your childhood trauma, whether aliens exist, and why somebody made the terrible relationship decision they definitely knew was terrible. 😂

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❤️ BOUNDARIES, BECAUSE WE DO NEED THOSE
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My sessions are completely platonic and follow Cuddle Comfort’s rules.

Underwear areas are OFF LIMITS, on or under clothing, always. No exceptions. Everything else is generally pretty relaxed as long as it stays within Cuddle Comfort rules, we’re both comfortable with it, and we communicate.

Basically, respect my boundaries and I will absolutely respect yours. If either one of us isn’t sure whether something is okay, we ask instead of assuming. It really doesn’t need to be complicated.

I am not looking for reasons to tell you no. I want you to relax, be affectionate, and enjoy your cuddle. Just follow the rules and don’t make it weird. 😂❤️

Cleanliness and good hygiene are also important to me. We’re going to be very close to each other. I feel like this one explains itself. 😬😂

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⏰ HOW LONG SHOULD YOU BOOK?
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I recommend at least 90 minutes. One hour sounds like plenty until we meet, talk for a bit, get comfortable, actually start relaxing… and suddenly we have seven minutes left.

If you can swing it, 3+ hours is where it gets really good. There’s enough time to settle in without feeling like we’re racing the clock. We can cuddle, talk, eat, watch something, change positions, laugh, and let the session happen naturally.

🌙 OVERNIGHTS

If what you really miss is falling asleep next to someone, waking up beside someone, or having an entire cozy evening where nobody is checking the clock every ten minutes, I also offer overnights.

They’re honestly some of my favorite sessions. We can order food, cuddle, watch movies, talk, fall asleep, wake up, cuddle some more, and actually enjoy the feeling of spending an evening together instead of squeezing everything into a short appointment.

I offer special overnight pricing rather than simply multiplying my regular hourly rate all night. If the listed times don’t work for you, ask. Custom start and end times can usually be worked out.

Longer bookings, full days, and even multi-day sessions or trips may be possible once we’ve established trust.

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🍿 WE DON’T HAVE TO STAY ON THE COUCH OR IN BED.
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Dinner, movies, concerts, events, weddings, social functions, outings, and other platonic companionship bookings are absolutely an option too.

I may also offer virtual FaceTime or text companionship, and double cuddles or cuddle puddles can sometimes be arranged depending on availability.

Have an idea that isn’t listed? Ask me. I’m pretty open-minded about making something fun work as long as it makes sense and stays within the rules.

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🏡 HOSTING + TRAVEL
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I CAN host in Long Beach, but fair warning: I’m still getting my apartment fully set up. 😂 If you don’t mind a place that’s still in the setup stage and coming together, I’m happy to host.

If you’d rather be somewhere more finished and settled, I can absolutely come to you instead. Your home, hotel, Airbnb, or another appropriate private location all work.

I’m based in Long Beach and regularly travel throughout Los Angeles and Orange County.

If you’re more than about 30 minutes away, I usually charge a reasonable travel fee for sessions under 3 hours.

If you book 3 hours or more, I don’t charge my regular travel fee. I just ask for a little help with gas. ❤️

If you’re considerably farther away, we can talk about travel time, distance, and any additional costs on a case-by-case basis. I’m pretty flexible when the booking makes sense, so don’t automatically assume you’re too far. Just ask.

And no car cuddles, please. We deserve lumbar support


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💳 PAYMENT
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Unless we’ve arranged a deposit, payment is due when I arrive or at the beginning of our session if I’m hosting.

Cash or Zelle are preferred. PayPal and Venmo may also be available.

Simple. ❤️

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📌 CANCELLATIONS
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I understand that life happens. People get sick, cars break, work explodes, children spontaneously become tiny agents of chaos. I’m not unreasonable. 😂

What I do need is communication.

When you book me, I reserve that time specifically for you. I may decline another session, rearrange my schedule, make travel arrangements, change personal plans, or otherwise organize my day around the fact that we have confirmed plans.

Because of that, my cancellation policy is based on CALENDAR DAYS so there’s no arguing over whether something was technically 23 hours and 42 minutes beforehand.

• If you cancel at least two calendar days before our session: No fee.

• If you cancel the calendar day before our session: 50% of the session fee is due.

• If you cancel on the calendar day of our session: 100% of the session fee is due.

• If you no-show or completely disappear: The full session fee is due and appropriate Cuddle Comfort karma/feedback may be left.

So if our cuddle is Friday, Wednesday is your final fee-free cancellation day. Thursday is 50%. Friday is 100%.

Any deposit you’ve already paid is credited toward whatever amount is due.

And truly, if something happens, JUST TELL ME. I would much rather get an uncomfortable cancellation message than sit there wondering whether you’re showing up.

I’m very understanding about life happening. Ghosting me after I’ve rearranged my life for you is a different category. 😂

Respect my time and I will always respect yours. ❤️

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🗓️ WHEN AM I AVAILABLE?
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I’m usually available most evenings and can make daytime sessions work if I have some notice. But it never hurts to ask.

Advance booking gives you the best shot at getting exactly what you want, but “Any chance you’re free tonight?” can be accommodated if I’m able to make it happen. So same-day cuddles happen too. 😂

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🥰 WHO ARE YOU ACTUALLY HANGING OUT WITH?
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Outside of cuddling, I’m a cosmetologist, creative, huge movie person, ukulele player, spontaneous dance-party participant, and serial starter of DIY projects that were allegedly going to take “like 20 minutes.”

I’m affectionate, curious, silly, caring, and pretty easy to talk to once the first-meeting weirdness wears off. I genuinely like learning about people, and I’m equally happy hearing about something important happening in your life or listening to the most ridiculous story you have.

Past cuddle partners have described me as calming, nurturing, affectionate, fun, easy to talk to, and someone they can really relax around. That’s exactly what I want you to feel.

No judgment. No pressure to impress me. No pretending to be somebody you’re not.

Just comfortable, platonic affection and companionship with someone who actually gives a damn whether you’re having a good experience.

Also, True Romance is my favorite movie.

What’s yours?

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💗 OKAY, SO NOW WHAT?
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Tell me what sounds good.

Movie cuddles? Three hours of talking about absolutely everything? Dinner and an outing? Quiet affection and scalp scratches? An overnight? A temporary escape from humanity?

Or maybe you have absolutely no idea because you’re exhausted and would like another adult to please handle the thinking for once.

Perfect. I can work with that too. 😂❤️

You don’t have to be experienced at professional cuddling. You don’t have to be charming. You don’t have to entertain me.

Be clean. Be respectful. Communicate. Show up when we make plans. Don’t push my boundaries.

Do that, and I will cuddle you to your heart’s desire and do everything I can to make sure you leave happy you booked me. 🤗🥰

It really is that simple.

And if you somehow made it through this entire novel, congratulations. 😂 You’re already demonstrating one of my favorite qualities in a cuddle partner: you actually pay attention.

Happy cuddling! 😘🤗💕

❤️ your favorite Lilhugdealer,
Riley