About me
My Ideal Situation:
When I get the chance, I really just want to dive my head right into someone's arms and cuddle while we watch family guy or something funny, light, and stupid like that. I'm tired of my mind over analyzing and everyday feeling so insecure and life feeling so serious. Some good comedy, light laughs, a warm blanket on the couch and cuddling...that would feel amazing.
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Hey there. I decided to join this site because I have been quite a depressed/anxious and isolated person for a while now. Please no judging my situation but I have been in self-imposed isolation for a while now. I keeping trying to reach out through most dating apps (NOT here for dating or anything other than cuddles by the way just to be clear) but I hardly ever meet anyone due to my extreme low self-esteem, social anxiety, and depression. Someone messages, and I "ghost" them before the conversation is even started.
I have been self-isolating for long periods of time on and off for years now and it's getting exhausting. And also, I haven't had real physical connection like cuddling with anyone for a long time either. My chest feels tight all the time and I feel like I have a huge weight on my shoulders everyday. The few times I have cuddled with someone, those feelings just disappear for weeks after and I feel light and like I can breath again after being under water for a long time.
We need more of this type of stuff used as therapy! I'm embarrassed it has gotten to the point of me having to reach out like this but I need help and it's something that therapists just don't provide and unfortunately mental health field can be overly cold and clinical when that is not what a lot of us struggling need. I don't know about others, but I need to feel human connection. No talk therapy. No sexual/hookup stuff. No dating (I can't even maintain basic friendships right now). Just pure physical comfort. Being able to take big breaths of relief in silence with a stranger who understands would mean everything to me.
I have been going through a lot, and it's hard for me to talk about this so please don't judge me or say anything rude. Please respect my privacy as well. I really wish "professional cuddles" were more common and accepted, because I would actually prefer that to traditional talk therapy.
Facts
Join Date |
November 2020 |
Orientation |
Gay |
Status |
Single |
Cuddles |
Men |
Can be |
Guest, Public |
Preferred Days |
Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat |
Preferred Times |
Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night |
Preferred Age |
18 - 45 |
Fav. Movie |
Comedies!! |
Fav. TV Show |
Family Guy, American Dad |
Location: |
Coquitlam |
Height |
5' 9" |
Body Type |
Average |
Car Owner |
No |
Drinks |
Socially |
Smokes |
No |
Ethnicity |
White |
Religion |
Atheism |
Job |
Unemployed |
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