About me
Greetings! My friends call me "Toasty" because of my naturally silver hair. 💫
I believe deeply in the power of presence, kindness, and safe, supportive connections. My goal is to create a space where you can relax, feel accepted, and simply be yourself. Whether you are feeling disconnected from the world, starving for platonic touch, stressed, or simply in need of someone to help you recharge, I'm here to provide a grounding, judgement-free experience built around warmth, connection, and authenticity.
Friends describe my presence as calming, playful, and attentive. I value clear communication, mutual respect, and consent culture. As a 41 year old man, I embrace a fatherly, nurturing energy that I naturally bring to each connection.
I see touch not just as a physical sensation, but as a language of healing. I love listening, holding space, and helping others feel seen and supported. My active, fully sober lifestyle keeps me feeling young, fit, clear-headed, and I bring that dedicated presence into every session. I do not drink, vape, smoke, or consume drugs of any kind.
My personal hobbies include flow arts, fire spinning, listening to electronic dance music, camping, working out, audio books, dancing, and cooking.
Before booking with me, I will gently request the following:
💫 A picture of you
💫 A quick phone call before our first session
💫 Respect for clearly communicated boundaries
💫 Cleanliness for both of us, with no strong scents
💫 Payment upfront (cash, CashApp, Venmo, or PayPal)
💫 A 50% deposit to reserve your time
I feel honored to offer this work and to hold space for your well-being. If what I’ve shared speaks to you, I’d be glad to connect and create a session that feels safe, relaxing, and tailored to your needs.
Together we can cuddle while:
- Watching your favorite comfort shows, movies, or anime
- Eye-gazing, having conversations, or appreciating the silence
- Listening to music, sound healing, or other calming sounds
- Sharing a meal, coffee, tea, or yummy snack
- Enjoying nature, the stars, and moon
- Reading together or sharing stories
- Napping or just resting side by side
- Coloring, arts and crafts, etc
- Also open to your ideas
AVAILABLE TO HOST:
My private home is located in North Arlington in a safe, well-established neighborhood with driveway parking available. The space includes soft, colorful lighting, fragrance-free beeswax candles, crystals, plants, and music of your choice. I can also begin our sessions with a brief sound-healing using my Solar Plexus and Throat chakra crystal sound bowls and Tibetan cymbals.
PRICING:
- $25 for 30 min
- $40 for 60 min
- $75 for 120 min
Depending on the distance from me to you, I may also request a small additional fee to cover my fuel expenses.