merely_defined

30 - Woman - La Jolla + Phoenix (US)
Fee: 175/hour - Can be: Guest, Public
Professional

About me

Warm Heart 💗🐈‍⬛
Healing Hands🐾
Safe Energy🪬🌀
Finding Comfort in the Chaos✨
Consensual Frequencies♾️
I like cuddling for the energy exchange💫

I am free. I am me. I follow my flow wherever I may go, wherever the wind takes me. I love witchy shit, alchemy, elixirs, the mix. I'm a tree hugger, adventure is life. I despise shoes. Have I mentioned nature brings me to life? Total boho vibes over here🍃 I believe we are all energy living in synchronicity..✨ I work with my inner child daily, integrate with my shadow, am working on my authenticity, learning to just be, simply me, merely defined🦋—>WORTH IT.

Before messaging me, please take a moment to read my terms and availability:
•I cannot host, I can only come to you at a location of your choosing, public or private.
•I will not exchange any personal information/contact information with you until a booking is approved and confirmed (this is a rule of the site).
•If you want to get to know me before exchanging physical energy in person during a cuddling session, you can schedule a virtual session with me for $75 before our in person meet.
•If you schedule with me and cancel or no show, I have a cancellation fee that you will be expected to Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle me for my time.
•If you cancel without communicating with me at all, I will not consider booking with you again as my time is valuable.
•I accept payment for our scheduled session upon arrival, and I always encourage you to have more funds on hand in case we decide to extend the session.
•I do book overnights and late night sessions of my choosing.

*With all of that being said, I do travel full time and am currently in California. Phoenix is my hub while I am in AZ, so if you want to schedule a session with me in the given area or surrounding, I will commute to you for free for your session if it is within 30 minutes of wherever I am staying, "within my cuddling radius". If you are more than a 30 minute commute to and from me, I do ask that my time, energy and gas money for travel be taken into account and a travel charge be added to our booking.


Why Snuggle With Me?
Simply put, I care deeply about your well-being. My intention is to offer comfort and presence through my snuggling services, whether you’re seeking support during a tough time or simply craving a moment of warmth and connection.
With experience supporting over 50 wonderful individuals, I’ve witnessed firsthand how nurturing touch can uplift the spirit, ease the mind, and foster a sense of peace. I see cuddling as more than just an alternative form of touch therapy—it’s a way to honor our basic human need for connection, both emotionally and physically.
I genuinely enjoy getting to know each person I meet. Whether we’re sharing stories, reflecting on life’s challenges, or simply resting quietly together, I hold space for whatever you need in the moment. Sometimes, the most healing thing we can do is simply be present with each other in silence.
My approach is always platonic and rooted in kindness, mindfulness, and respect. I believe that intentional, caring touch can be a powerful tool for healing and growth.

Some of the benefits you might experience from our sessions include:

• Lowering anxiety and stress
• Improving social skills
• Supporting your immune system
• Easing symptoms of PTSD

If you’re looking for a safe, nurturing space to relax, reconnect, and feel truly seen, I’d be honored to share that with you.

I hope to snuggle with you soon! Be well. 🪷🤍

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$175

Facts

Join Date April 2023
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night
Fav. Movie Practical Magic | Burlesque
Fav. TV Show Charmed | Criminal Minds
Location: La Jolla, CA
Location #2: Phoenix, AZ
Height 5' 6"
Body Type Slim
Car Owner Yes
Pets 🐈‍⬛🐈
Drinks Socially
Smokes Sometimes
Ethnicity White
Religion Buddhism

E•••••e


2 months ago

Her presence is amazing. As soon as we met, things felt familiar. She comes in with a confidence and warmth that lights up the room. Easy conversations and just wonderful cuddle time together. An absolute joy to be around, plus she is 100% punctual. Can’t wait for our next session.

Californiaaaaaa


2 months ago

If there has ever been anyone, tailor-made for this business, it’s her. Literally the session could not have gone better. A very down-to-earth person and a natural beauty. Communication was easy and she was on time.

SteveSPhx


1 year ago

I had a fantastic experience with merely_definded. She exceeded my expectations. She was warm, kindhearted, easy to talk to, and a great cuddler. She noticed I was a bit nervous and immediately put me at ease. She is a great conversationalist. Our time together went by too fast, and I look forward to seeing her again. I would highly recommend.

davey62


1 year ago

I had a great time with merely. She is very chill and empathetic. We had a nice session cuddling and chatting. She is beautiful inside and out. I can’t wait to see her again. Highly recommended.

M•••••Z


2 years ago

I recently spent time with merely_defined. She is a truly gorgeous, friendly, and sweet woman. Her warmth and genuine personality made me feel instantly comfortable. She's not only stunning in appearance but also has a wonderful sense of humor and an easygoing nature that made our time together feel natural and enjoyable. Our time together exceeded all my expectations, and I was left happy and fulfilled. She's the kind of person who leaves a lasting impression, and I'm already looking forward to our next cuddle.

deleted cuddler


2 years ago

Definitely my favorite cuddling experience and one of the most rad people I have ever met. Even more beautiful in person, off the charts beautiful on the inside as well. Incredibly big hearted. So much authentic, kind energy. I was having a very tough day and struggling mentally before I saw her. That all went away the moment we hugged. Session was beautiful. Incredible hugs and cuddles. Amazing listener and she will look deep into your eyes like no other. She gave me so much energy that it has lasted through the week, people noticed. I know this sounds too good to be true but this has been the most productive, energized week I have ever experienced. Will return over and over again.

t•••••h


2 years ago

I had high expectations, and this session was still so far above! Gorgeous? Yes! But we laughed our asses off...got tangled up in tight cuddles...and connected. It is so easy to see her heart and halo. She truly cares about caring for you.

Bentley05


2 years ago

Awesome! Great session and highly recommend. Thank you!

hellothere1969


2 years ago

She is such a sweet, down to earth girl. Very real with a good sense of humor. Gorgeous, perfect everything in terms of appearance. Will definitely cuddle with her again!

H•••••5


3 years ago

Had a lovely cuddle session with Mere. She is caring, positive, professional and thoughtful. She was super easy to schedule with, had a great playlist ready to go, and was the perfect snuggle buddy. I hope to see her again soon 😎

c•••••a


3 years ago

Thank you for a great professional session. You are a genuine treat for the soul!

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