About me
July 12th:
I cried for Norway's loss last night 😢. Such a heart broken game.
On another note, my birthday is coming soon on July 20, come wish me happy birthday 🥹
Random thought in June:
I love listening to people deeeeeply and mindfully. And i always value those who know how to listen.
I think listening is the best way to understand someone also to improve our own knowledge.
However it is sad that it is so rare in our society.
Have you ever realized, when you shared something, the moment you were about to finish, not even finished yet, the listener already jumped into you and talked about something else that is completely non related to what you were talking to? I see that a lot in every day's conversations between people.
I can only trust and be close to people who do know what listening is.
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Yes i still can host this week.
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$60 host fee (a motel or regular hotel: clean, safe, decent but i cannot say it is nice).
If you want a nice 4-5 star hotel: $100 host fee.
(I share the cost with you, that is why i come up with that price, i dont get any hotel discount)
I have realized that early morning cuddles before sunrise are what I crave the most. zen and soulful. Welcome to cuddle me early in the morning, even from 5am :). I am willing to wake up that early.
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❣️ Before you learn more about me, please allow me to be realistic first. 😉
🪴Required online deposit before session: minimum $100.
Dont worry, This deposit will go toward the cost of the session when you pay me the total amount.
The deposit stays the same if you are busy and want to reschedule with me.
But, You will lose this deposit if you cancel after booking.
If for some reasons you can not do online payment, you can meet me somewhere near by my place, hand me the deposit, then i can plan on session afterward. I will not come to your place and wait to receive deposit there. It needs to be around San Jose.
🪴 There is no exception for me requesting a clear photo of you to be sent to me on this website. Please dont tell me you prefer to send photo on another platform. 100% my clients are happy with that. And I am stick to it. 😊
🪴 Now we can put the $ talk on the side 😛.
Profile:
☘️ i need to see your FULL FACE PHOTO/ SELFIE to start with. Not with you wearing sun glasses or being very little in the photo. I hope you understand I ask photo for safety. 😃
🌿 Something I am asked a lot is what happens if one becomes aroused. Please understand that this is a 100% platonic session and if that is a concern, we can change positions or keep space between us until it subsides. If you are unable to control yourself, the session will end and you will not be refunded.
🌿 for hygiene, mentality and energy reasons, i never cuddle with more than 1 person in 1 day. Before i meet you,
I always mindfully prepare about what i will eat, think, wear, do for the whole day then deep shower right before session. After that, i shower again and deep rest after cuddling to restore energy. i dont jump from this session to another session. I would spend time and effort connecting to you even before we meet.
Therefore, my focus and mindfulness is 100% on you if we agree to cuddle...
🪴 my brief intro to cuddling:
I'm Chloé. 💃🏼
I grew up from an Asian family dynamic which made me think platonic cuddles, touches, hugs did not even exist... everyone assumed cuddles and touches were only for sexual desire.
I always felt like something missing out in me and my family dynamic with my parents/ siblings... and i then realized those were cuddles/ touches after many years. 💆🏼
The first time i had a meaningful platonic hug was with an old lady in the nursing home when i was already 24 years old 🥹. I was crying inside at the moment.
I am someone who is extremely intellectually curious all my life. 📚📗
So learning about the inner self, trauma, and mental healing were already in my to do list since i was a teenager.
It was one of the best things i learnt in life.
Platonic pure hugs, cuddles, touches could calm my storm and yours, and give us so much positive effects. 🧸
I am confident with my senses, mindfulness, understand, intellect, and deep listening, I could support you.
Which ever technique people talk about cuddle, i dont follow, i want to do it in the most organic way.
🧸Tell me your story and i can squeeze you dearly and sincerely. I value you being vulnerable.
I did this a lot before when i volunteered in a nursing home to help the lonely female elderly.
I'm new with cuddles on this site. I know it's transactional but there is still space for genuine connection and endearment.
🍀 A bit more about me:
Sapiophile. Love anything IQ EQ related and always into self development.
Always Learn, Unlearn, analyze, listen deeply, and rethink, not following social norms nor mainstreams, looking at things at many different angles. (Kind of philosophical mentality).
I'm living in San Jose. I used to be a flight attendant flying around the world (been to more than 30 countries), living in Abu Dhabi before the US.
I have an office job now and doing this on the side for my cuddling passion and extra $.
I did 1 Full Marathon and some Half marathons. read tons of books, research articles, audio books, scientific videos.
All my English was self studied.
Did prolong dry/ water fasting and maintain intermittent fasting.
did commercial advertising and magazine model in college but then realized that is not my cup of tea. i was too nerdy and introverted in that world.
I have always been practicing toxin-free lifestyle for years. Health, nutrition, living environment are always in my mind.
I only consume organic food + natural beauty products and say no to plastic surgery/ fake lashes/ heavy make up/ long colored nails, colored hair.
you will get zero toxin from cuddling me from my lifestyle if you are health conscious because all of my skincare and lipsticks are 100% pure no synthetics, no chemicals.
I am an avid reader so I understand most subjects to talk about, but dreamy and romantic at the same time ☺️
Perfect cuddling would be with some great music/movies with some fine cheese on a couch on a raindy day 😋
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Please read this carefully:
🪴 im not for you if you are looking for something sexual, and if you don’t have self control and don’t understand how to maintain and respect boundaries. Only pure platonic cuddles, touch, talk without touches on bikini area.
It is understandable if people get stimulated while cuddling, i don't judge you on that, but we are all adults so we all should know how to respect boundaries.
🪴I will not push boundaries secretly hoping things will escalate. Consent is critical to a safe cuddling session.
🪴 i need Real and Recent full face photos without sunglasses of clients via MESSAGE ON THIS PLATFORM to accept booking. A picture on here is the bare minimum before moving to video or anything else. No exception. I DO NOT accept photos on other chat apps.
I also need a video call (free) after booking confirmed here and before in person actual session.
🪴 i don't smoke, drink, not into night life, hook up culture. I can't cuddle if you are intoxicated. I cant cuddle if you text me at 1am and ask if im available.
🪴 location could be movie theatre, drive in movies, your house, private lounge, clean safe hotel.
🪴 i need you to be hygienic. Freshly showered. Fresh breath. Clean clothes. I follow the same rules. We both should wash hands after exchanging cash. (We all know how much bacterias in cash but most people forget to wash hands after handing cash. I hope you understand. ☺️☺️)
🪴 Pls be fully clothed. t-shirt + soft pants/ shorts. (Boxers are not shorts).
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Virtual: $100/ 30 minutes.
Gifts or tips are highly appreciated. ☺️
🌳 I know my requests are strict. I understand many cuddlers are way easier and offer more affordable price than me. However, that is my perspective to maintain safety and comfort standards for BOTH of us. I could not give you real warm soothing hugs and touches if i feel anxious.
I hope you understand.
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