About me
Hi – I’m Leaf.
We're living in an epidemic of busyness.
So let's slow down.
I provide sweet cuddles, as well as empathy, validation, and fun loving conversation. It's your chance to externally process anything you're going through. You guide the session in terms of it being relational, coaching, and/or soothing simple snuggles and play :)
———Where am I? 🌿
🌊 Home in San Diego/La Jolla
———Who is Leaf? 🌿
I tend to be regularly complimented for being insightful and empathic. I bring presence and warmth to a session. I am available to hear about your day, life, challenges, and also what brings you joy and meaning. I can hold space if you need to openly process strife or stress. Take a moment to hear your own heartbeat, and that of another’s. Cuddling can be powerfully restorative and healing. You have found something that truly cares.
I have a large uniquely built camper van that I have been restoring and... adore! It is clean and tidy with excellent lighting and music. I'm quite proud of it.
———Why Leaf? 🌿
I completed professional training through Cuddle Sanctuary ✅, which I was impressed with its quality and am happy to share more about.
🤍I have specialty conversation topics I'm happy to share or explore. Such as...
- longevity,
- burning man,
- genetics,
- attachment theory,
- exploring CA & red rock country, etc.
The world is our conversational oyster. ꧂
———Where does Leaf host in San Diego? 📍
I have a spacious, clean, beautiful Promaster 3500 with a unique design feature: a murphy bed!
My favorite places to host in my van are below however, there are many options all over town. I generally seek out locations that have food, restrooms, beautiful views, and a hike/walk available:
⭐️ Torrey Pines cliffs, behind the Gliderport. Magical coastline with paragliders dotting the sky. Sunset cuddles here are incredible if you would like the lovely experience!
⭐️ La Jolla Shores Beach when it isn’t busy. The waves can sometimes be directly visible from the cuddle nest in the van!
⭐️ At the iconic Balboa Park for a more central San Diego experience.
Vans are ideal at PARKS :)
——— Karma
Existing positive karma goes a long way with me, and if you don’t have any, I will require an short interview / intro call on facetime or gMeet 💫 Thank you - this helps me feel safe and allows us to hit it off
———Cuddling Essentials 🧸
I typically cuddle from 9am - 9pm 🌙
1.5 hour - $200
2 hours - $250
2.5 hours - $320
3 hours - $400 (flexible on time & price considering meals or a movie)
Overnight: considered for incredible clients
virtual session 30min: $50
virtual session 60min: $80
Please be punctual and fresh in terms of body & breathe.
I'll be wearing soft shorts & a comfy short sleeve or tank top. I encourage the same with an emphasis that boxers are not shorts. Light or no cologne. I accept payment upon arrival. In the interest of creating an authentic experience I am not strict about time keeping. ✨ Try to not be nervous... this is a 100% platonic, fun, relaxing experience 🧸
...What IS that experience though? 🤍
Cuddling reliably boosts several “feel good” neurohormones and reduces stress hormones at the same time. The main positive players are oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins, while cortisol tends to drop during warm, safe touch. ꧂
——— Rate Rationale
I am shocked by how much certain people charge for cuddling. My rate takes into consideration an ample amount of administrative work and how much I wish the healing power of touch were more available in this culture. Since this is my primary form of income at the moment, this is the rate that I can survive comfortably - I am not rich or well off by any means. When you schedule and hopefully become a regular with me... you are supporting me through higher education and a career shift.
——— 🌸🌿🧚♀️✨🌳🦋🧸🤍♥️ 🌙⭐️ 📍🌼🌊 ✅☺️💕💗
🌳 There’s a kind of magic in simply being held and truly seen. To everyone who has shared that with me, thank you for the joyful moments, ringing laughter, compelling tales, and the tender moments. You’ve made my world softer, and I can’t wait to meet the people still to come.” 🤍
Hope you're having a wonderful day!
Hugs,
Leaf 🌿