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Until further notice I am taking a break from booking through this site*******


Portland, Oregon Based Cuddler that Travels

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-Taking bookings for...

Portland, OR
August 19th-26th

Seattle, WA (Lynnwood)
August 27th-30th

But with all that logistical stuff out of the way...

Hiya Cuddlers! 🤗 I am so excited to be here and really LOVE the support I am able to provide for so many wonderful and unique people.

Cuddling isnt just something I do on the side or simply to make money. I take the energy exchange aspects seriously and want to use the skills I have learned, and continue to hone, to help you shed fear/pain/insecurity and release tension and stress from your body and your mind to open yourself up to receiving love in your life. I specialize in creating a judgement free safe place to be your full self for a little while.

I will want to ask how you want your cuddle to feel bc it helps me make sure your needs are met. Do you want to feel listened to, desired, nurtured, admired, safe, vulnerable, strong, or maybe just simply relaxed (even any other of the thousands of emotions).

I pride myself on being a genuine and authentic person. I always work to create a safe space and am generally a pretty easy person to talk and open up to... or sit silently with knowing you are fully accepted 💕

I am an all spoons kind of girl so you won't find a position I don't enjoy. I find a head on my chest is as comfortable as my head on someone else's. I have also been called both an octopus and a spider monkey by other cuddle partners because of the fact that I really like to wrap up and get super close. I definitely tend towards being a more active cuddler, mixing up positions to see what seems to help you relax and let go the most.

I definitely produce a lot of body heat around my core, and actually really love to help someone's cold hands and feet warm up against my tummy, so never worry about touching me bc you think you're too cold.

I have spent a good deal of time learning about and practicing healthy interpersonal communication, conflict resolution, relationship boundary setting, positive self-esteem practices, and navigating consent.

My best friend would describe me as sweet, quite affectionate, and driven. I have also been told I have healing hugs 🤗. My life hasn't been particularly easy and as a result I live with PTSD and Chronic Pain/Fatigue and experience mobility issues... But that's what I love so much about cuddling! The comfort of human connection and warmth, the feel of a heartbeat, it's all sooo healing. Like dialysis for the soul ❤️

In Portland I have worked hard to create a friendly, safe and welcoming environment but also offer guest and public options.


*******These are PLATONIC services*******

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Welcome to my TED Talk...
I am up front about being transgender for my own safety, not because I see myself as a novelty or think it at all important to cuddling. I'm more than happy to talk about my life during a session for those that are curious. I get it. Its kind of interesting. However, my Karma does plenty of speaking to my actual abilities as a cuddler and that is the experience I want to bring to you, if you'll allow me.

** and Hey y'all who are asking yourselves (and maybe plan on asking me)... Yes, my pictures are real and are really me. No, none of them are filtered. No, I dont wear heavy makeup. I literally have karma about the fact that i look like (or "better" than) my pictures. I am finally writing this as it can feel particularly demeaning as a woman of trans experience to constantly have my appearance questioned. I am beautiful, I love the way I look (for the most part😅🤦‍♀️😂) and chances are if you like my pictures you will like the real thing too... anyways 😅😅😅 mini rant over lol**

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I offer virtual and text sessions for $30 per half an hour.

$60/hr