About me
I am someone who believes that some of the best moments in life are the simpler ones; curling up during a rainstorm, falling into conversation that somehow lasts into the early hours of the morning, or just feeling comfortable enough with someone in such a way that neither has to pretend to be "on" or performative.
I naturally gravitate towards calm and atmospheric environments as much as I do meaningful connection. Think soft lighting, good music, movie nights, comfortable silence, and relaxing rather than awkward presence.
My energy tends to be highly attentive and giving as much as it is affectionate, emotionally aware, and grounding. I value communication, consent, mutual respect, and creating or being invited into environments where people feel genuinely comfortable "letting their hair down," so to speak.
Outside of cuddling, I am a professional songwriter, lyricist, and musician working primarily within Metal, Industrial, and EDM. Creativity touches a lot of areas in my life and runs the gamut between music composition to scent creation to psychology, technology, massage, reiki, and exploring odd rabbit holes that somehow begin to make sense late into the night.
I can be intellectually intense at times, but not in a cold or overtly serious manner. I genuinely enjoy warmth, humor, curiosity, and people who appreciate both depth and playfulness.
If you enjoy good conversation, relaxed energy, music, affection, emotional honesty, and the occasionally wonderfully absurd tangent, you're my kind of person. Feel free to reach out.