About me
Hey!
**Unfortunately, I am unable to host - sorry! :( **
I'm new to this site but really happy to be here. Platonic cuddling is awesome - it helps spread happiness and lowers stress, and helps stem the tide of loneliness endemic to our society.
**Housekeeping: **
Respect for boundaries (on both sides) is paramount. I am trusting here that you will hold up your side of this, and will not cross any lines or break any site rules. Mutual respect, talking through these boundaries upfront will help keep both parties safe and happy, and should help get all that awkwardness out of the way :)
I'm sure you will understand that both my and your safety and sense of security is THE most important thing. This is not a criticism of you personally, simply a necessary safeguard in this line of work.
Basically, I need to feel safe with you on a public place before I'm willing to be alone with you, so if you're not willing to spend time getting to know each other in person, in public, until I feel comfortable with you, please do not contact me.
Until I reach that level, I WILL NOT go anywhere alone with you and cuddling will be done at movie theaters, parks, etc.
I get to decide when I've reached that level, without pressure from anyone.
Before I will meet you anywhere other than a public place, I will ask for a picture of your driver's license. This and the address where we are meeting, as well as any other pertinent details, will be given to my safety consultant, to ensure my safety. If you are not comfortable with this requirement, kindly keep scrolling.
Again, this is not a criticism of you, I'm sure you are lovely, it's just a necessary step to weed out people with not so kind intentions.
If this is good with you, please feel free to reach out. I promise, I am a kind and big hearted person :)
All the good things!
A bit about me: I live in Melbourne, 31yo, cat mamma, dog walker and editor. I love to read, write and consume TV (these days it is an art form and I could talk tropes and plot holes all day heh). True crime, if I had to pick one 'genre'.
I love baking - discovering new recipes and giving them to loved ones aka my crack team of taste testers.
Animals are the best thing in this world - the way they love with abandon. They don't care what you look like, if you're socially anxious or how much money you have. They just want cuddles and treats and pats. It's a good way to be, I think :)
I like people: being around them, bonding over the most random things, and brightening each other's day. Holding hands, an arm squeeze, head scratches, back rubs, and the classic hug. Simple touch is quite lovely.
I love to listen to people - some of the best chats I've ever had has been with a stranger at a cafe, or with an uber driver. Am fairly articulate (I'd like to think!) and love having a laugh with someone, or going deeper, hearing about their lives.
Can be introverted if I'm nervous, but it's the best feeling growing more comfortable with someone and developing an ease and emotional intimacy.
I am a gentle, down to earth, non-judgemental person, who likes to make others feel comfortable/cared for. I think that compassion and kindness is the single best way to go through life. Everything good comes from that place.
I promise to approach each cuddle in a calm, clear-eyed manner. These things can be awkward to begin with, and I believe if we acknowledge it, we can have a giggle and move on.
Cuddling and human touch can be a remarkably healing thing!
I'm open to suggestions regarding the cuddling setting - happy to chill on couch or floor, hold hands and walk on the beach or parks, or do other fun stuff like having a dance together, baking some cookies, have a cuddle puddle with your pet, or just sit and talk. I enjoy giving head scratches, arm, and back scratches, running my fingers through your hair and lightly scratching head, behind ears, under facial hair. It feels nice and is quite lovely to see how much the person likes it.
I've heard of people cultivating a few cuddle buddies for ongoing sessions, and becoming 'friends' in a sense, just developing a sense of ease and friendliness and having semi regular sessions as needed. I'd love to have a few regular clients :)
Anyway, I'm sick of saying "I" - I'd like to hear about you!
Please send me a message with any questions/niggling thoughts you might have, or if you want to know more about me.
Look forward to meeting you!
Sarah