About me
hi! I’m Lilly
I am a young professional in the science sector and part time graduate student in the dmv. In my free time, when i’m not sequestered in a classroom or being a lab rat, I love to attend live music events (Sufjan stevens is my favorite artist), cook foods from new cuisines (céviche and birria are my current obsessions), stay active via hiking and yoga, and go out with friends! I consider myself very extraverted, empathetic, sensitive, emotionally astute, and good at listening.
I’m here because I believe that in our current fast-paced world today, we have lost sight of true interpersonal connection. The current state of being engenders coldness, intolerance, and haste. Conversely, I want to slow down and spread warmth. So many people that I meet are touch-starved, and they do not even realize it. I have asked friends and strangers alike, when was the last time they were hugged, and many cannot remember.
I believe that with every cuddle, I actively do my part in mitigating this creeping societal isolation. I have a background in psychology and biology, so I know just how important physical touch is to the human psyche. There are positive hormonal releases that directly correlated to being touched, and these hormones directly impact our mood, and our somatic wellbeing. but apart from the scientific side, more importantly, to me, cuddling allows for vulnerability, comfort, and deeper connection. I promise I won’t talk your ear off about the science of why cuddling feels good while we cuddle!
I want a good cuddle to leave both of us feeling refreshed, happy, and totally at ease. the way I cuddle would best be described as passively active. I intuitively will start the cuddling while also being anticipatory and receptive to my cuddle buddy’s needs. I am all about communication, so let me know if you prefer being little spoon, or if you’d like to talk or keep it quiet, or if you want head scratches or not! I find I get my best work done and feel mentally optimal after I experience human touch, and i want to impact you to have this too! I want to do my part in making this a more loving, patient, and calmer world, and if you’d like to join me, please don’t hesitate to reach out!
**some general policies and boring logistics stuff**
-I will wear shorts and a T shirt during our cuddle session
-I am open to overnights, but not as an initial session (typically I am more comfortable with an overnight after 2 previous cuddle sessions)
-I do not have a car, so if you prefer to meet significantly far outside of DC proper, I would ask that transport be covered
-open to video chats/zoom sessions! definitely inquire if you are located farther out and would like to connect :)
Rates & Services
Facts
Join Date |
September 2023 |
Cuddles |
Everyone |
Can be |
Guest, Public |
Preferred Days |
Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat |
Preferred Times |
Afternoon, Evening |
Fav. Movie |
Arrival (denis villeneuve) |
Fav. TV Show |
avatar: the last air bender |
Location: |
Washington |
Height |
5' 6" |
Body Type |
Slim |
Car Owner |
No |
Pets |
none |
Drinks |
Socially |
Smokes |
No |
Ethnicity |
Asian |
Religion |
Agnosticism |
Children |
Possibly in the future |
No friends to show yet :(
She had very comforting and soothing personality. Made me feel much lighter after my session. Would recommend!
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9 months ago
I absolutely loved cuddling with Lilly! She has a great personality, so just being around her is fun. Her skin is incredibly soft and her cuddling positions are creative and unique. She brought me pure bliss and I’ll be seeing her again soon 😊
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10 months ago
Outstanding new professional cuddle partner with high energy and strong hugs. Highly recommend.
Lilly has a wonderful personality and is a warm and welcoming cuddler. She is very punctual and professional. I greatly enjoyed our time together. Highest recommendation.