About me
platonic cuddle therapist | big brother energy | virtual cuddle sessions | stress relief | non-sexual touch | safe space in Chicago
I'm Steven, 36, 5'10", and I bring a protective big-brother presence. Clients describe me as a “human teddy bear”—warm, grounded, and fully present. I listen without interrupting or offering unsolicited advice, lighten heavy moments with well-timed humor, and always keep an extra hoodie on hand.
Years as a barkeep taught me how to hold space for every kind of story. Whether you’re celebrating a win, processing a loss, or simply need quiet company, I’m here. Platonic touch is my specialty: secure big-spoon holds, clear boundaries, and optional light conversation (Anime lore welcome).
What I Offer
Non-judgmental listening – share work stress, relationships, or deeper struggles; I’m fully engaged.
Virtual sessions – 30–60 min via Zoom, FaceTime, or Skype. Cozy setup encouraged (blanket, tea, low lighting).
Big-brother comfort – firm, gentle hugs; optional head pats; curated background music (lo-fi, 90s hip-hop, or your choice).
Safety first – your pace, your rules. I check in verbally before physical contact begins.
Bonus: Big-Brother Coaching (Optional, No Extra Charge)
As a former bartender and natural listener, I offer light, no-BS guidance when you want it — always optional, never pushy.
Life Coaching: Goal-setting, daily habits, breaking procrastination
Basic Financial Advice: Budget templates, debt snowball, side-hustle ideas
Dating Support: Profile reviews, approach confidence, texting feedback
Weave it into a cuddle session (in-person or virtual), or book a stand-alone 30-min coaching call ($40).
100% judgment-free. You lead, I follow.
Ideal Cuddle Client
Anyone seeking safe, platonic recharge—busy professionals, introverts, empaths, or those navigating loneliness. First-timers especially welcome
Virtual : Worldwide; any time zone
Availability
In person: W-Sun: Noon - 4pm, All day Mon & Tues
Virtual : 11am - 4pm, All day Monday & Tuesday
Rates
In person $90/hr (First timers get a discount!)
Virtual $40 - 30 minute session $75 - 1 Hourly session
Next Step
Message me your favorite comfort film or a song that moves you (no judgment). If we align, we’ll schedule a low-pressure session.
Consent and boundaries are non-negotiable. Strictly platonic. Professional conduct guaranteed.
50% deposit due upfront for in person, none for virtual. I have the right to refuse service for anyone violating website terms and agreements. Please as for more details!
I'll be here for you.
Facts
| Join Date |
November 2025 |
| Orientation |
Straight |
| Status |
In a relationship |
| Cuddles |
Everyone |
| Can be |
Guest, Public |
| Preferred Days |
Mon, Tue |
| Preferred Times |
Morning, Afternoon |
| Fav. Movie |
Scary movies and Heists |
| Fav. TV Show |
Breaking Bad, X-files, Soprano |
| Location: |
Chicago, IL |
| Height |
5' 10" |
| Body Type |
A little extra |
| Car Owner |
Yes |
| Pets |
Cat |
| Drinks |
No |
| Smokes |
No |
| Ethnicity |
Asian |
| Children |
Has no children |
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