vaultie_lite

Considerate and understanding. Affection and comfort without judgement.

Please read all of the following before messaging me.

I need to feel safe with you before I'm willing to be alone with you, so if you're not willing to spend time getting to know each other in person, in public, until I feel comfortable with you, please do not contact me. Until I reach that level, I WILL NOT go anywhere alone with you and cuddling will be done at movie theaters. I get to decide when I've reached that level, without pressure from anyone.

Before I will meet you anywhere other than a public place, I will ask for a picture of your driver's license. This and the address where we are meeting, as well as any other pertinent details, will be given to my best friend and safety consultant, to ensure my safety. If you are not comfortable with this requirement, kindly keep scrolling.

It has been my experience that clients who do not live near me have unrealistic expectations about how quickly I should be willing to invite them into my home. For this reason I will most likely not respond if you live more than about 30 minutes from me.

I will not compromise on my safety so please don't ask. I do not offer any services at a discounted rate so please do not ask.

I will not move the conversation from here before I'm very sure of you, so please don't ask. I'll let you know.

If we make plans to meet for the first time and you cancel with less than 24 hours notice, I will not reschedule.

I don't cuddle with married people who are not being fully transparent with their spouses.

I dislike having to be so firm, but the need to do so has made itself evident.

I am by nature a caring nurturer. What you have read up to this point is how I weed out the predators, jerks, etc. I'm actually a sweetheart, I just have a very low tolerance for BS.

My ideal cuddle partner would be someone who respects my boundaries, is hygienic, and is exactly who they claim to be. I am open to most any direction you want our session to go, as long as it is platonic. I also offer hair play, asmr/back caressing/tickle/scratching /tracing services in addition to a good old fashion cuddle. Your pets are also welcome to join if you wish.

My life is very full between my job, my animals, and my hobbies. I regret that I can't spend more time answering all of the kind messages I receive. Please be patient and know that it's not personal. Happy cuddling, yinz!