About me
Hello fellow cuddlers,
I am Alex, and I am an Italian born (soon to be British naturalised) guy that loves cuddles. If I have to be honest, I was a little late to join the cuddle wagon as I used to dislike intimacy and cuddles. When I was a kid, I did not like hugs or cuddles, it was only in my late teens that I discovered cuddling... and now I am making up for my lost time.
In my sessions, I always try to create a comfortable and relaxing space for both of us. I like to adapt each session to a specific need, but I am also happy to go with the flow and change accordingly to how we feel. I can provide the standard cuddling service, including hugs, holding hands but I am also happy to be a friendly face to share a walk in a park, walk the dog, midday run together and a conversation on life. I think of our time as a safe space, where we can just be ourselves. I am a great listener, and I am happy to listen and share stories, both personal and not. Whether cuddle in the park, at the movies or we share a laugh and a cry walking along the canal, I am always ready to listen and be present. Sometimes, cuddling after a stressful week is what we need to lift our spirit and prepare us for the week ahead!
Now, let me share a little more about me:
I am a postgrad student in psychology, and I am an easy-going guy; I like to debate and read, I can talk politics, movies and science for hours on end without tiring. I am a fencer, I have been fencing for most of my life, and I love nature, especially hiking. You can see my two favourite hikes in my pictures: Norway at "Preikestolen / the Pulpit Rock" and Mount Chirippò, Costa Rica tallest mountain (the climb was a 12h overnight climb to 3800meters, so excuse my tired face!).
Being a PhD student in mental health, I not only appreciate the warm and cosy feelings of cuddles, but I know that cuddles, physical proximity and touch are so good for us. Perhaps if we all stopped and became more aware of our needs and our surroundings, like feeling close to someone, being held, listened to and understood, we would all be less stressed and tired. I know I certainly feel better after a nice and cosy cuddle. As a grad student in London, life can get pretty challenging, so I thought I would give this a try, to make new connections and to get all the positive vibes as rewards from it :)
I'm available weekdays and evening at the weekends and for longer hours.
Drop me a message :)
Alex
Facts
Join Date |
April 2019 |
Orientation |
Gay, Bisexual, Pansexual |
Status |
In a relationship |
Cuddles |
Everyone |
Can be |
Host, Guest, Public |
Preferred Days |
Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri |
Fav. Movie |
V f. Vendetta&It's complicated |
Fav. TV Show |
way too many to decide |
Location: |
London |
Location #2: |
London |
Height |
5' 9" |
Body Type |
Athletic |
Car Owner |
No |
Pets |
no |
Drinks |
Rarely |
Smokes |
No |
Ethnicity |
White |
Religion |
Atheism |
Job |
Researcher |
No friends to show yet :(
No Cuddle Karma just yet. You can write about your cuddle experience with xlandert once you have exchanged a few messages.