AllonsyAlonso28

MUST HAVE THE CUDDLES. I am in love with the idea of a safe, consensual, platonic space where human connection and healing touch can happen. I think human contact is increasingly important to those of us who are more reclusive by either nature or life circumstance, and that cuddles are an awesome way of helping fulfill that basic human need <3.

As someone with a chronic illness who is consistently homebound, cuddles are my lifeblood. I adore most forms of touch during cuddles, and it mostly depends on how my body is feeling that day. I like to be held and to hold. I am all about scritches, light feather touches, hair playing, firm caresses, massage. I love stimming on slpw feather touches and just letting myself get lost in the light touch of a safe person. It gives me a huge dopamine hit, like getting a good massage. It's been sorely lacking in my life for too long! Due to the nature of my health issues, I tend to fall asleep during cuddles at some point. So I need a cuddle partner who is comfortable with that. And with the possibility that I will be wearing a CPAP mask at some point so I don't like, you know, die during cuddle-sleeps lmao.

Also, because hell to the yesss. I have a king sized bed. That can adjust its incline degree from 0 to 45(ish). It is AMAZING. *jiggles idea in front of you like a shiny, happy lure* ;-)

And to finish up, my idea of a cuddle session would include a conversation beforehand about boundaries for each of us; preferences; what we hope to achieve from the session; etc. I know I make it sound like a clinical procedure rather than a splendiferous event, but it is vital to have this conversation and knowledge before proceeding with a cuddle-hang. Once we're all clear on the deets, I promise I am actually kind of fun to be around :-P.