BearHugz86

58 - Man - Canby, Oregon, US

"I like to cuddle while being totally present and attuned to the person I am with"

About me

Cuddling has made a profound difference in my life. It helped me heal years of frustration and shame after divorce, and helped me grow self-confidence and self-worth by learning to identify and articulate my needs and desires.

My first experience with platonic cuddling was with an amazing professional cuddler who appeared when I needed her most. I was going through a very intense period in my life, and I just needed to be held, but didn't have anyone in my life who was able to meet my need in a safe and healthy way. This was critical because touch is one of my primary love languages, essential, nourishing, life-support. My professional cuddler and I co-created very clear boundaries and a safe space for our time together, which not only met my need for touch but also introduced me to a new paradigm of touch that has been deeply healing.

She made it clear that this was a platonic cuddle session, period. “Sex is off the table; there is no destination to get to. I want you to let go of any thought of there being any pressure to perform. As a guy, you’ve been hard-wired by our culture to think you need to turn it on or push a little more to get me to change my mind or give in, as if I’m playing hard to get. That’s not happening here. This cuddle session is just for you. Let go of feeling like there is anything you need to do, or give, just receive.” It was such a relief to allow myself permission to be vulnerable and nurtured by her safe touch. I was able to just BE. I was witnessed and cherished, and accepted just as I am. Her caring embrace touched me deeply and gave me a visceral knowing that everything I was going through was going to be okay.

Multiple cuddle sessions together anchored a paradigm shift in my relationship with touch and my ability to express my needs, desires, and boundaries. With clear boundaries in place, I was safe enough to be vulnerable and allow myself to explore how cuddling can feel blissful and sensual, without feeling sexual.

My goal as your cuddle partner is to co-create a sanctuary where you can be held and experience the deep, felt-sense knowing that you're safe to explore and give voice to your heart’s needs and wants.

I look forward to meeting you.

Facts

Join Date	September 2022
Orientation	Straight
Status	Single
Cuddles	Everyone
Can be	Guest, Public
Fav. Movie	Moana 1 & 2 and many more
Fav. TV Show	Ted Lasso, Yellowstone
Location:	Canby, OR

Height	5' 6"
Body Type	A little extra
Car Owner	Yes
Pets	not currently
Drinks	Socially
Smokes	No
Ethnicity	White
Religion	Other
Job	Student
Children	Has children

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MountainLakes

3 years ago

BearHugz86, where do I start? I've had the pleasure of cuddling with BearHugz 3 times. He is kind, compassionate, fun, spiritual, and fantastic at the tight warm safe bear hug!! We took cuddling to the next level sharing our energy healing and shamanic practices while we cuddled. Just WOW!!

MissAdventurous

3 years ago

What true joy of a gentleman and completely kind and considerate. We got to meet up in Colorado while I was in town and had a wonderful time with him. Charismatic and witty, I look forward to when we can connect hopefully when you're back on the West Coast. Definitely look forward to cuddling and will update this review once we have. 😊 Thank you for being so awesome!

S•••••s

3 years ago

BearHugz86 is a fabulous man... I have had the chance to cuddle with him multiple times in a group setting, and hang out with him in social settings as well. I am grateful for his down-to-earth demeanor, joy, positivity, and inclusive/kind manner overall.

His cuddles are warm, comfortable and easy to drift off with when sharing an embrace. Appreciate all of you, friend!! Denver's cuddle scene won't be the same without you ... come back often, okay?!

S•••••s

3 years ago

BearHugz86 was a delight from the first time I met him at a group cuddle. He is a blast to be around with an infectious zest for life and such a beautiful heart. Our sense of humor goes great together and I felt comfortable with him as if I'd known him for ages. He listens to concerns with an open mind and an honorable spirit, and his hugs are truly something to melt into.

I'm thrilled every time I see him at a group cuddle, and I had the distinct pleasure of being held by him at a recent house cuddle, when I finally worked up the courage to ask the room for what I wanted, which was to be held face to face. He immediately volunteered and I'm so grateful for the time we shared, because I am not exaggerating when I tell you that the world stopped turning while this man was holding and squeezing me. He made me feel so safe, so accepted, so loved, so small, so comforted. It was everything I needed in that moment and I thank him for such a beautiful experience. I can't wait to snuggle him again!

s•••••y

3 years ago

Oh. My. Goodness. Just wow. 😊

BearHugz is the kind of gentleman that an enthusiast like me is looking for. As other Denver cuddlers have mentioned... he is kind, caring, respectful, bliss creating, and a gem. I absolutely align with these statements and I got to witness this first hand....

BUT.....

There isn't much mention in his profile or otherwise about how FUN this cuddler is!!! He was just absolutely delightful!! We met for coffee after his willingness to put in a lot of effort to align our schedules. We chatted about a LOT of different things and his desire to make sure I was comfortable before asking to hold my hand. By the end of the coffee meet we were on the same side of the booth snuggled up sharing stories. I can't say we've had a "proper cuddle" but I am certainly looking forward to spending more time with this beautiful soul.

Ten stars mister BearHugz. 🌟✨🎇TEN STARS!!! 🎇✨🌟

BearHugz86
3 years ago

thank you soooooo much silly sassy! can't tell you how much this warms my heart!!!! I had so much fun cuddling with you, proper or not, and look to so many more cuddles and laughs and good conversations

justjennn

3 years ago

Oh this man ❤️I needed a minute to collect myself after my last cuddle in Denver! This man is such a gem and a half. The connection in conversation that we shared is second to none. I am SO filled with gratitude for the time I shared with him and truly can't wait to do it again someday soon.

o•••••2

3 years ago

BearHug is an absolutely wonderful human. He is caring, kind, respectful, has an huge heart, and is a joy to be around. Conversation is so easy and I felt instantly comfortable with him. He is an awesome cuddler. It was blissful to cuddle with him and I look forward to future cuddle sessions. If you get a chance to cuddle with him, don’t miss out!

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