BestHugz

52 - Man - Alameda, California, US
"I like to cuddle while ...well, pretty much anytime."

About me

Optimistic, playful, curious, and grounded. Grew up with both family & friends that are a tactile and connective bunch, so cuddling is pretty much a lifestyle. I enjoy all the ranges of connection, from tucking feet under each other while sitting, to full on puppy piles. I was happily surprised to find this site, and really enjoy the options to connect and cuddle platonically. I'm experienced with good communication, cuddle parties, and am a strong advocate in consent.

"I've known you for around 20 years, and I say with conviction that you're one of the most genuine, consistent, kind, and engaged people I've ever met. You're thoughtful, adventurous, and self-aware. Plus, you are a a human teddy bear, and give the warmest hugs. You can quote me on that :-)" --One of my best friends

Facts

Join Date April 2017
Orientation Straight
Status Single
Cuddles Women
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night
Preferred Age 30 - 60
Fav. Movie Scott Pilgrim vs. the World
Fav. TV Show Lots...
Location: Alameda, CA
Height 5' 11"
Body Type A little extra
Car Owner Yes
Pets none of my own, but love them
Drinks Socially
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Other
Job IT/Tech
Children Has no children

C•••••s


3 months ago

I met BH through very good friends and at a platonic touch party. We arranged a cuddle at my place. BH had tip top cuddle hygiene, was respectful of time boundaries, and was very attuned with his cuddle energy.
He has a million stories up his sleeve and is a great conversationalist. He is also well practiced around consent and will check in frequently.
He has a firm solid quality to his cuddle hold which I find very relaxing and healing.
He uses moving touch as part of his cuddling which is my preferred style. He is well regulated and keeps energetically to the platonic container.
He is also generous with his time and is supporting members in the cuddle community around processes for their platonic touch or private cuddle parties.
He is currently one of my fav cuddle buddies! I'm always trying to hit him up. LOL.
But I can't keep him a secret.
If you are looking for a healing, safe, considerate, and enjoyable cuddle, BH is the one to reach out to.

M•••••s


10 months ago

BestHugz was my first cuddle at a Platonic Touch Workshop, and his warmth stayed with me. He gives generous hugs, offered the most relaxing head scrunchies, and contributes meaningfully to cuddle community building. I look forward to cuddling again soon!

CharismaticQTea


10 months ago

BestHugz is such a highly intelligent gentleman. He is kind and respectful. I felt safe in his presence. We spoke about a variety of topics and had such an interesting conversation. I learned a lot during our discussion and I look forward to seeing him again!

SonaW


1 year ago

When I read this man’s profile, I felt an instant spark of recognition & resonance. I knew I had to meet him. We had a lovely phone conversation. In this age of texting, not everyone is so open to talking on the phone, so for this I was grateful. Our first meeting in person happened to be on my birthday. Best hugs did indeed live up to his name:) 🤗 And not only did he bring me the most thoughtful birthday card, he was also a perfect gentleman & paid for dinner. As I intuited, this guy is a gem! Now I can’t wait to actually get to cuddle with him 💞

EllieCuddlebug


1 year ago

It’s been a pleasure to reconnect with Brian again after a few years of a gap. 

This incredibly dude has been in the Cuddle Party/consent Movement communities for at least a decade if not more. He’s well-versed in both the value of safe, platonic touch and the need for it. So the net /net is there’s “no education” on boundaries and protocols needed here! He’s like a pro, but is really just a cuddle enthusiast. 

 He’s a totally safe, wonderful, kind, and caring cuddle connection. 

I definitely give him two thumbs up!👍🏻👍🏻 and will encourage others to not hesitate in reaching out to him if you’re looking for good Cuddle Companion.

C•••••i


1 year ago

I’ve had one of the most blissful cuddle sessions with BestHugs, ah so serene.
His bio is on point and his smile is genuine and warm, just like his bear hugs.
A versatile individual with cool hobbies, such connection to treasure.

B•••••s


3 years ago

I have LOVED my time cuddling with this guy. He's one of the most thoughtful, kind, caring, communicative and sincere people on this platform. He's super fun to cuddle, is very knowledgable about consent culture, and is just overall such a treasure to spend time with. I have LOVED cuddling him, and only gave it up because I'm an ocean away now. Anyone considering cuddling with him should absolutely do it - you will have a great session and make a sweet friend, too!

HugsnKittens


4 years ago

Such a rad human! Our connection was near instant and effortless, closeness felt easy and organic, and conversation was fun and engaging! He has an excellent focus on consent and comfort, reassuring Covid safety procedures, lots of inviting options for cuddling locations, and a warm, snuggly nature. Our session just FLEW by, and I can’t wait for the next!

koalabearcuddle


4 years ago

An amazing cuddle! He’s so fun, really easy to spend time with and has wonderful stories. He’s super snuggly - an A+ cuddler 😊

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