BioHackAgingNow

65 - Agender, Gender Nonconforming, Nonbinary - Portland, Oregon, US
"I like to cuddle while watching any genre of movies, discussing them"
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About me

I'm kind, gentle, and respectful of boundaries and beliefs. Athletic, healthy and good hygiene. My favorite topics of discussion are healthspan, human nature and futurism. My bias is transhumanistic but enjoy different perspectives. Despite having been hetero married and had children my orientation throughout life has been more asexual than sexual. Sex has never been a necessity for me.

"Friends" is a term with usually positive reference, whereas "partners" often involves stressful connotation (abuse, loss, etc). I consider coupling to be a fiction that has more drama than bliss for most people and a fiction I will not participate in. I fly solo 😉

I will participate in the fiction of "Friends". My definition of friends is zero deception and positive regard (no negative statement about a friend to others). No entitlements to a friend's time, attention or resources. I'm also an in person oriented friend, the long distance correspondence or phone calls thing doesn't work for me.

Geography is a limiting factor as I am most often in SW WA (& NW OR) with occasional visits to Seattle area and SoCal. I am happy to host friends no charge for a week (with proper safety vetting) at my Airbnb in the Columbia River Gorge. There are swimming holes and hot springs near my place. Lots of water play and snow play in the winter.

I am comfortable cuddling most people whilst talking or watching about any genre of cinema and discussing. I am completely sex(ual activity) indifferent, but will explore agreeable comfortable possibilities of cuddling when I am sure that whoever I am cuddling with does not view me as some savior to become emotionally dependent on.

To use the Attachment Theory language (which I consider too simplistic and binary as a model) I generally can be scheduled for in person "safe haven" sessions, but consider the most reliable "secure base" to be an individual's own creation - not reliant on others.

Facts

Join Date October 2020
Orientation Asexual, Demisexual, Heteroflexible, Queer
Status Single
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days Mon, Fri, Sat
Fav. Movie Birdy (1984 Modine, Cage)
Location: Portland, OR
Height 5' 8"
Body Type Athletic
Car Owner Yes
Drinks Rarely
Smokes No
Religion Agnosticism
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BunnyTheCuddler BunnyTheCuddler
52 - Petersburg (City)
Lovetolaugh2 Lovetolaugh2
63 - Sequim
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33 - Den Haag
MissAdventurous MissAdventurous
34 - Seattle
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s•••••r


2 years ago


jon's place was safe & convenient & it was fun helping him practice Spanish ◡̈ i enjoyed hearing about transcranial ultrasound imaging having neuroprotective effects. he cuddles very respectfully & was concerned for my comfort ✨

MissAdventurous

MissAdventurous


2 years ago

Why, what a truly lovely experience getting to know this kind, human being. 💖

We had a rejuvenating time allowing ourselves to relax and cuddle up with each other. Great communicator on all accounts, thoughtful as a host, and a true joy to hold and be held by. 🙂

I look forward to the opportunity of our schedules lining up down the road. Thank you for being YOU! 😄

BioHackAgingNow
BioHackAgingNow
2 years ago

Thank you so much, MissAdventurous, for being you, too. You are the perfect example of a Professional on this site. I am so glad I chose you to be my first booking of a pro. Your guidance for me to join the ranks and change my profile to Professional for the purposes of health evangelism is deeply appreciated. I do look forward to seeing you again.

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4 years ago

I had an awesome time getting to know this lovely person. He totally went at the pace I was comfortable and had impeccable communication skills which helped me to feel totally comfortable.

His cuddle skills are on a master level for sure. Matching my breath and the levels of pressure felt so amazing. I left feeling so relaxed I melted right into my bed.

Thank you so much it was a totally wonderful experience I look forward to again:)

Lovetolaugh2

Lovetolaugh2


4 years ago

What a great cuddler. Very authentic and warm, and we had great discussions while cuddling as well as cuddling silently with relaxing instrumental music playing. Truly a super mental and physical battery-recharging experience. This guy's 100%. And some absolute huge laughs interspersed.

BunnyTheCuddler

BunnyTheCuddler


4 years ago

Totally blissful experience! Arphaxad007 is so wonderful to cuddle with that I couldn't possibly capture the experience in a few sentences, but I had an absolutely wonderful time.

He is very clear about consent, and accommodating to my requests for cuddling positions, and incredibly mindful. His touch is intentional and he was completely present during our time together. Conversation flowed easily and he was an active listener and had many enjoyable stories he shared. He's living an interesting life and made me feel like my life stories were interesting too!

I feel very lucky to have spent an evening cuddling with Arphaxad007 and hope to be able to cuddle again next time I'm in the area!

l•••••e


5 years ago

This is a sweeeeeeeet man people! For those concerned with safety, Arphaxad007 is an ideal cuddle partner. Really gentle and tender touch, communicative, aware of consent, sensitive, combined with a really nice grounded athletic solidness. He's also a great conversationalist and has many interesting viewpoints on life and relating. We had a bike ride, a couple meals, some ping pong and a lovely cuddle session. Two thumbs up!

BioHackAgingNow
BioHackAgingNow
5 years ago

Littermate rules! Thanks SO much for that blissful recharging. You (and your cuddling) are making the world a much better place.

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