JGreen12345

I’m new to the Bay Area and am looking for cuddle buddies who want highly consensual, intellectually and emotionally connected, and delightful relationships.

Cuddle buddies have often described me as having a “clean energy” and as “extremely conscientious and safe” so that it is “easy to relax and enjoy the moment”. They also admire my ability to “create a space where I take care of myself while ensuring others are taken care of”.

While I currently mainly do weeknight cuddles or weekend overnights. I’m open to considering a wide variety of cuddle arrangements - from one-time public meetups to regular overnights, every request will be treated with openness and gentleness.

Cuddle approach
If you reach out to me for cuddling, here is roughly what you can expect the path to be for a first time cuddle.
1. We chat and potentially meet to check that our energies, essences, and intentions align
2. We have a phone chat to set the container and come to agreement on boundaries, expectations, and agreements
3. I start first time cuddles with a minute of eye gazing while we hold hands and take a few deep breaths to align nervous systems
4. Once we start to cuddle, I feel safest starting a deliberate consent with each movement along the way, giving time and space to attune to what feels connected for both of us. Cuddling also has a pretty wide definition for me going from just sitting side by side, to holding hands, to holding each other, to playful wrestling.
5. 15 minutes before we part ways, I find the most compassionate and kind closing is to eye gaze again and have an honorable closing expressing appreciation, clearing ruptures, and sharing gratitude. That way I can detach compassionately and maintain a warm connection.

My rituals come from a deep reverence for my intimate connections and wanting to honor them. Along the path I respect (and encourage!) either person to change their mind at any time if it does not feel right. Also, I see each cuddle session as beautiful and self-contained experience in itself, with no expectation or future obligation (though if we connect well, I would be delighted to connect again :-D )

Finally, if you reach out, thanks in advance for honoring me with your trust to take the first step.

PS - Fully vaccinated