Most important on top: if you send the 2 minimum photos, it saves time, and makes me feel heard. Starting us on the right foot!
Still consider myself a newb. I only match 30-55 yo people, normal BMI or athletic (like me :-)
I went to first cuddle party early November 2023. Still not sure what to expect but I want to make space in my life for free hugs and meaningful friendships. I come from a country where we don't hug, we kiss on the cheeks - so hugging is pretty intimate for me.
I want to bring intentional touch back in my life, beyond what I could experience through ballroom dancing. At this point, I am open to explore cuddling with mentally and physically healthy people from any gender. If you are working through deep trauma, a conversation may be more appropriate, and maybe I can help with that too, and maybe less physical touch at first.
My sense of smell is particularly sensitive. I definitely cannot meet smokers or people are heavy on perfume or smell like hair sebum š
... i will personally shower, wear deodorant and light perfume (i have a variety if there's a preference).
I am allergic to pets and wouldn't be able to cuddle on fabric where they sleep, or if you have hair on the clothes you are cuddling with.
Most likely, I wouldn't ever spend the night. I am a light sleeper and easily awoken by others. I really value quality sleep š
I stick to the official rules as much as possible (consent at each and every turn).
If you are new, here's the official website:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/media/contracts/CC_Client_Service_Agreement.pdf
There's also an interesting documentary on YouTube from 2016 that's is still relevant and explains cuddle parties well.
I have a process to keep myself safe while exploring off the beaten path:
1) you must have access to a safe, clean & quiet cuddling place within driving distance
2) you share identifiable 2 photos first:
a- face without sunglasses nor hat
b- full body standing figure
3) we have interesting and safe convo with shared values
4) video call
5) meet in person
6) share phone numbers if all good.
If you don't have the patience, then I know we are not a match, no worries.
As a female on this site, I do get a fair number of messages and will not respond without seeing good and clear photos of you. I'll return the favor if I think there's potential.
I don't meet travelers as a general rule, but if we have tons in common, maybe.
Although getting aroused could happen and is human, we are adults and I expect you to be aware and take a break before I can notice it. If I notice it, I will bring it up and ask for a break. If you try to engage in sexual activity, I will leave early as well as report your profile.