deleted cuddler
1 year ago
User was semi respectful when it comes to asking before making advances, though he did express that he enjoys pushing boundaries. I was surprised by this as I intentionally asked prior to our visit if he was okay with strictly platonic cuddling and he agreed. I understand that there’s a level of intimacy that arises from these sessions which is safe, though just because it arises doesn’t mean it needs to be acted on. I was also disappointed that this user neglected to pay me the full amount for the session after I had driven an hour and half to meet late at night. That was pretty disheartening. I would have appreciated a bit more integrity in this experience. I left feeling a bit disappointed in myself for not speaking up more when it comes to upholding boundaries and respecting my own time/energy. It’s a vulnerable position to be in though. Another lesson learned I guess.