About me
Tall blonde. 5 foot 9. A good 6 foot in high heels! Kind, loving, & gentle, (except for when my dog is on my white rugs! Lol) wife, mother of 3 adult grown boys, Mimi to 4 grandchildren, empath, Prosthodontic surgical assistant, part-time yoga instructor, occasional back up singer, and right now taking all the holistic medicine classes that I can.
I have a natural curiosity about people’s worlds, and of course LOVE to cuddle!
If I had to pick a religion. I would say I am a Christian Buddhist. 😂
I’m also someone you can rely on, and feel I’m a great friend. I really feel cuddling is how we can make the world a better place and recharge our souls.
MY LIST OF PLEASURES.
Deep conversations.
Spending time with my boys, family, & friends.
Massage of any kind.
The beach! Or anything on the water.
Hair treatments.
Getting Nails done.
Long hot baths.
Candles.
Holistic wellness and medicine
Good music.
Flowers.
Stretching/ Sweating/ and any type of yoga or Pilates.
I’m a slow sip beverage junkie! Wine, different waters, cacao, fresh juice, coffee and teas.
Walks in the woods.
Sunset/ sunrises.
Literally hugging trees, & spending time outdoors.
Different cuisines.
Photography.
Hugging /cuddling people.
Dressing up and going out. Makeup, high heels, & beautiful sexy clothes.
Making good healthy food.
Vacations, & Long car rides. Or any travel for that matter. (It’s my favorite.)
Making someone smile.
Being in bed with a steamy cup of hot chocolate, & good book.
And of course. Great movies.
Looking for someone who will let me steal their body heat! 😂 Cuddling is highly important and fun. It’s always good to find a Netflix friend or a BFF. The nurturing and healing aspect of it alone does make a huge difference.
Whether you're in the mood or need for a concert or event partner, (which I love doing!) a cozy movie night at home, a lazy Sunday afternoon friend, or just someone to share dinner or a quiet moment with, whatever it is. I've got you covered!
I do this because people can be touch or friend starved, even in relationships! Society gives few ways for platonic touch, or friendship.
Many of my clients don’t want anyone to know that they see me! Wondering why there is so much shame about this. Why is there a shame about loneliness, or needing touch?!? 🙄 Cuddling is a NEEDED form of therapy.
Anyway. Just fyi. I DO NOT MAKE BOOKINGS/APPOINTMENTS WITHOUT GETTING A CURRENT PICTURE AND A FIRST NAME. NO EXCEPTIONS!
Also, I would like to meet for coffee, drink, or dinner FIRST. Man or woman, just to make sure we’re both comfortable.
ALL of our sessions WILL BE non sexual and if you grope, grind, etc. I will have no problem leaving. PLEASE be a gentlemen!
But on the other hand. Providing your safe place, comfort, and joy is always a top priority for me. LOVE giving that complete relaxation to everyone. I’m here for you!
Cuddle partners, If I EVER do anything that you are not comfortable with (even unintentionally letting my hand rest somewhere, for example), tell me immediately -- and you will only have to tell me once.
If you can’t say no then your yes doesn’t mean anything either.
I am 420 friendly. But I do not smoke, or smell like it.
My time is precious and I’m sort of particular so it’s important I share time with someone who is kind, genuine, authentic, thoughtful, affectionate and down to earth. I try to posses those qualities so I value that in others.
For those of you far away, who keeps asking me about traveling to you. Sorry, I no longer travel out of Michigan nor do anything more than an hour drive.
And. I’m so SO sorry!! Horrible clients have done it to you, not me. 😢 I now require NEW clients and clients with bad karma, or a bad track record of canceling, to make a 50% deposit in order to reserve a spot in my calendar. This dramatically cuts down on no-shows and late cancellations. And if you do cancel last second I get to keep the 50% for you wasting my time.
Of course anything like an REAL emergency I would pay you back.
Payment is always made in full BEFOREHAND or at the START of any session. I expect you to prompt this transaction. You can easily give me an envelope, or pre-pay through Venmo. I shouldn’t have to ask for it. Also if I do have to ask you for it, you should know that I have been burned way too many times now with people just giving me whatever they think, after me trusting them to pay me when the visit is over. No matter who they are. Dr, lawyer, businessman, etc. So PLEASE, please don’t take offense!
It’s like me going in somewhere and buying something for $300 and just saying “oh, here’s $180” Because that’s what I think it’s worth. 🤬
Or “ I forgot my wallet, and this is all the cash that I have” or “I didn’t get enough cash out of the ATM,” etc. Excuse after excuse. 🙄
If you’re hiring me. Please know my fee is $120 an hour. I accept Venmo, (my id is @Summerishappy1972) and cash.
Cuddle Comforts charges me 15% (automatically taken out of my bank) per hour booked through the booking panel.
I do have Google Meet and Skype for Virtual’s.
30 minutes for $60. Paid though Venmo.
Virtual sessions include conversation and getting to know each other, peaceful postures to deepen relaxation, guided imagery, listening to music that you love, cozying up with blankets and pillows or just having tranquil quiet time with me.
It’s really about what you want and need with them. Communication is key.
I prefer a long term arrangement.
Thank you for listening, and considering me as your cuddle buddy! ☺️
PS. Please send a selfie when I/we ask.. It can be scary meeting a stranger, it makes us feel safer!
Edit. 11-25-23
I keep getting the question if I charge for the first meet and greet coffee, drink, or dinner.
So let me clarify.
If we are doing just a quick coffee or drink, there has been many times I don’t or haven’t charged. (And did not charge at all for the first visit in the beginning)
But what I have found is (on this website and the one I was on before) that if I tell someone I’m not going to charge them, they usually don’t message, call, or show up, and/or cancel on me at the last second. Like while I’m actually at the place waiting for them. 😩 And that’s after I’ve cleared my schedule for them, showered and gotten ready, left my family, traveled to get there, etc..
So that’s why I started taking a deposit before the appointment time and charging for my time. ANY TIME.
If you’re already a client or a regular of mine. You do NOT have to put a deposit down first.
I will do stuff like give you extra time on that first visit though, or credit you time for some actual cuddling, from that first visit. Truthfully. It really just depends on how much time we use, and how it goes between us.
But, anything that’s going to be a couple hours of my time or more. Like a leisurely dinner to get to know one another a little bit better. (Which I love doing, and I am WAYYY more comfortable with you that way) I would definitely charge for.
I totally understand and have no problem if that’s not doable for you. Truly. It’s ok.
But please realize, this is for you too!
You may not like me enough to cuddle with me!
Also, If it’s not doable for you for the first visit. I’m sure it’s not doable for you to have a long business relationship with me and become a regular. So please don’t ask me NOT to charge you, or book me at all. It’s ok! We all have our things.
I think cuddlers have to understand how much trust and vulnerability goes into a cuddle, and if they're/ you’re not willing to earn that, THAT IS OK!
I also want to clarify that I usually don’t go cuddle after the first meeting. Especially if it’s going back to someone’s house. I DO NOT ever do that!
But, if it was going to a hotel where people were around. Maybe. Depending on how comfortable I am with you. But NOT EVER at someone’s house.
If we become regular cuddlers, and I’m comfortable with you. Then I will gladly go to your house.
I do this because it gives me some time to think about and see if I feel safe and comfortable with you or not, and time to chat more if not, and to get there before our next visit. If we have one.
Thank you for understanding.
I know it’s a lot to think about and take in. But. It’s really just about my safety and comfort in this crazy world.
I promise I’m worth it.
Your complete relaxation and abyss is what I strive for.
Just give me a chance. If you don’t like me. You can always just not ever book me again.
And I am totally ok with that. 😊