Xynthia

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💖𝓦𝓮𝓵𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓮!💖
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First and foremost, know that I promise to make you feel as included, loved and wanted as I possibly can <3

❤️Any Age❤️
🧡Any Race🧡
💛Any Gender💛
💚Any Sexual Orientation💚
💙Any Body Shape💙
💜Everyone is Valid and Accepted💜

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💖𝓣𝓪𝓫𝓵𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓒𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓼💖
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❤️𝒜𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝓜𝑒
🧡𝒞𝓊𝒹𝒹𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒮𝓉𝓎𝓁𝑒
💛𝒞𝓊𝒹𝒹𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒫𝓇𝑒𝒻𝑒𝓇𝑒𝓃𝒸𝑒𝓈
💚𝓑𝑜𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓈
💙𝓗𝒶𝓇𝒹 𝓑𝑜𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓈
💜𝒮𝑜𝒻𝓉 𝓑𝑜𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓈

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❤️𝓐𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓜𝓮❤️
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I consider myself to be a pretty laid back type of person. I’m only 22 but I’ve been through a lot in my life and most people say I’ve got an old soul because of it. I’m a great listener and I’ve also been told I give great advice! Currently I am cuddling full time while trying to grow more as a person.

When I’m not cuddling I love to sing, write, draw or play games! In general, I’m definitely a creative type of person. I also have a twitch channel where I stream games from time to time. Feel free to ask me for my twitch channel if that’s something that interests you!

While cuddling, I love to listen to Lofi music or watch a lighthearted movie! I love cartoons so anything from Disney, Pixar or any other animation studio, I am all over it! However, the horror movie genre is also one of my favorites! While it isn’t everyone’s cup of tea for cuddling, it could make for a really interesting session. Let’s cuddle up close and get spooked together!

I did mention that I’m a singer though, so if we watch a musical or a movie with music then prepare for me to casually sing my heart out in the background! You’ve been warned ahead of time haha 😊

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🧡𝓒𝓾𝓭𝓭𝓵𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓢𝓽𝔂𝓵𝓮🧡
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Personally, I don’t think cuddling needs to be an overbearing effort from one person or the other. It’s the little things that really set the mood for that needed intimacy, and that is what I like to provide!

My style of cuddling is soft and gentle. I like to gently rub my hands along my partner’s arms, belly, back, outer thigh etc. It depends on the position really, wherever I can reach that avoids boundary areas! I also enjoy dancing my fingers along these areas as well! Soft scratching, light massaging and using my fingertips to create goosebumps are just a few ways I like to make my partner feel nice and tingly! It’s like ASMR for your skin 🥰

I’ll intertwine my fingers with yours, play with your hair if that’s within your comfort zone and latch/hug onto whatever is in my grasp to make you feel wanted and appreciated! My cuddling style is about making my partner feel safe, comfortable, valid and, most of all, appreciated!

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💛𝓒𝓾𝓭𝓭𝓵𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓟𝓻𝓮𝓯𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼💛
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I have a tendency to focus a lot on what the other person wants versus what I want but that’s a portion of myself I’m currently trying to work on! That being said, I decided to note my personal preferences for people to keep in mind as well as myself when discussing a cuddle session.

Personally, I like being massaged platonically, having my hair played with and fingers gently rubbing or softly scratching at my scalp or neck. I usually prefer to be the little spoon because I get more from being held and it makes me feel secure and safe. The same goes for laying my head in your lap.

However, your personal preferences will definitely be taken into account! I’m not a selfish person by nature, and I want both parties to enjoy the experience to the fullest :)

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💚𝓑𝓸𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓼💚
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I always keep boundaries in mind while cuddling and I appreciate the same from my partners. I understand that there are neurodivergents and other groups of people that may not be okay with certain things that other people see as no big deal.

It is important to note that unless I’m given acknowledgement that it is okay, I will not do anything aside from the cuddling basics. For example, I won’t play with someone’s hair unless they have mentioned that it’s okay beforehand or during the session.

I try my best to make sure the other person is completely comfortable and okay throughout the entire session. Consent is so so SO important to me! So please, let me know all of your boundaries as soon as possible!

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💙𝓗𝓪𝓻𝓭 𝓑𝓸𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓼💙
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I’ve separated my personal boundaries into two categories. The hard boundaries are boundaries that are not to be crossed, violated or argued against under any circumstances. If these boundaries are violated then it is a complete disrespect to myself and the session will promptly end with no refund.

Most of these boundaries are obvious since I can’t stress enough that these cuddle sessions are completely PLATONIC and NON-SEXUAL. Anything of a sexual nature is not only against the site rules, but it is NOT welcome and will result in an immediate report and non-refund of any payments made. This could include touching inappropriate areas, making inappropriate comments, inappropriate gestures and inappropriate requests.

Another hard boundary refers to my cat Oliver. If I am to be hosting, my partner must be completely okay with Oliver’s presence and if I think for a second that he may be in danger I will immediately end the session and will not issue a refund. If you are allergic to cats I will not be held responsible for any allergic reactions if you decide to have a session with me. I will try my best to accommodate, but I can’t make any promises because Oliver is a very social cat and he loves being with people.

My third and final hard boundary is in reference to my own safety. If I at any point in time feel unsafe or that my physical safety is not guaranteed, the session will end, again, with no refund.

If you are respectful, kind-hearted and understanding then you have nothing to fear! For others, if these very basic boundaries scare you then you need not apply for a session with me.

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💜𝓢𝓸𝓯𝓽 𝓑𝓸𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓼💜
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Soft boundaries are boundaries that are more so preferences than anything else. These boundaries can be negotiable and more than likely will take a few sessions with the same person for me to be comfortable easing out of them.

I’m a bit of a neurodivergent myself, so one of these boundaries is face touching. I would prefer that no one touch me around my eyes, nose or mouth area. This is also mainly because of COVID and I am also of the habit not to touch others in this area until I build a rapport with them and vice versa, vaccine or no vaccine. This does not include my forehead, cheeks, or chin. Those areas are free game!

Another soft boundary of mine refers to socks. It is a general preference of mine that socks be kept on throughout the session if I am hosting. If I’m not hosting then I don’t mind. This mainly pertains to the cleanliness of my own home since I prefer not to have bare feet upon my sofa or bed. If you are wearing sandals or flip flops, then bare feet is okay. This boundary only refers to individuals wearing closed toed shoes. That being said, if you are an individual who enjoys no socks during a session then please wear flip flops or sandals to the session!

Lastly, I think it’s important to mention that I prefer not to wear a bra for cuddle sessions. Of course, if it makes my partner feel more comfortable for me to wear one then I will. I think a lot of people can relate to how uncomfortable and restricting they can feel and I prefer not to wear one for my own comfort during the session. Please know this is NOT a sexual invitation. It has nothing to do with anything even remotely sex related. I simply feel more comfortable by not wearing one and wearing one tends to hinder my personal cuddle experience.

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I’m still working on adding more to my profile! Stay tuned as I add more information about my screening process, special things I offer and my plans for my future in cuddling! I just wanted to get my basics out here and on my profile so that people could see important things like my boundaries and cuddling style. Thanks for reading if you made it this far! <3 Stay cuddly!